You want to seduce a woman and wonder where your first date is going? Since today is about your first date, I will first go into the classic locations to get to know.
Some of you may think that a fancy date with crazy ideas or in unusual places would be a better choice for your first date. Stop! This assumption is definitely NOT recommended.
Choose a place where you can be confident.
If it is a place you already know and where you know people, then you feel safer and that will make the woman feel comfortable with you.It'll take away your nervousness and make the date a lot easier for both of you.
You can do the crazy variant in the next dates, if you already know each other a little, and you know what she likes. Because then you avoid nasty surprises.
Let's start with the classic places for your first date:
The café or the ice cream parlour
We all know that especially many women find it very pleasant to get to know each other in a café with a good cappuccino or a hot chocolate. The whole relaxed and calm atmosphere with an ambience of a lounge can be a good basis for a relaxed and nice conversation.
If both feel comfortable, the first step towards getting to know each other is much easier.If you already know a certain café that you particularly like and that you also associate with positive stories, then you should take the initiative and suggest this café. A first advantage for you, because most women appreciate it very much when the man has good ideas and sets the tone.
A little hint:
A café with a beautiful view - and good lighting - not only gives the evening a romantic touch, but you can also simply let your eyes wander without it becoming unpleasant.
Furthermore, the eyes shine particularly beautifully and this can trigger a lot in the opposite person. (Try a few bars beforehand, where the eyes shine particularly well. This is a secret tip from me).
The Restaurant
Romantic candlelight, a fine meal and a glass of good wine: the date in the restaurant is the classic, not only in Hollywood films. As they say, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." A good meal is in a good mood and that is the best prerequisite for a successful date.
Little tips for the restaurant:
You should ask her if she is vegetarian or vegan and if she suffers from an allergy. It is also advisable to reserve a table in good time, in case it is a well-attended restaurant. Don't order the cheapest offers, show her you know quality.
Avoid spinach, herbs and be careful with salad, as it can get caught between your teeth and looks anything but beautiful. Don't get completely full: Firstly, this doesn't make a nice impression and secondly an overcrowded stomach makes you tired and who knows how long the evening will last. The same applies to alcohol.
One or two glasses are no problem, but don't overdo it - otherwise the date can start backwards.
The Bar
The atmosphere in a bar is definitely looser and also a bit more comfortable. The atmosphere and the ambience take the tension out - a good basis for a good conversation, especially if you are a bit shy. Unlike in a restaurant or café, stage fright fades after the first cocktail at the latest.
However, the volume level in the bar should not be so high that you can still have a good chat - you don't want to yell at the woman either.
Again, be careful with the alcohol.
The park or the zoo
If you already know that you two have common hobbies, then the park is a nice alternative in good weather.
During a walk, conversations can sometimes unfold super and this is also a good basis for getting to know each other.However, I would advise to change the place to a bar afterwards. It adds a little excitement.
A little hint:
If you want to meet her in a park, don't meet too late, as a walk in the dark can be a little uncomfortable for the woman and she may feel insecure.
The Christmas Market
The real romantics among you are of course dating in the beautiful pre-Christmas time:
Fairy lights and a harmonious atmosphere everywhere, plus a hot mulled wine? Perfect! Skating together (or trying it unsuccessfully) is a good basis for a little snack at the Christmas market.
Fairy lights and a harmonious atmosphere everywhere, plus a hot mulled wine? Perfect! Skating together (or trying it unsuccessfully) is a good basis for a little snack at the Christmas market.
My bonus recommendation for your first date with a hot woman
As nice and good as the classic places for your first date sound, it will be a particularly good date when you change places.
For example, if you first eat an ice cream, then go to the park next door, then you go shopping because you still need something for your cat or for your dog, then you go to a café or a restaurant and then you go to a nice bar together. Try to have some interesting and funny experiences with her.
CHANGE PLACES!!!!
You will experience different things in different places. This will bring you into situations where you are constantly changing the topics of conversation and the mood. This is so important psychologically and this day remains deeply anchored in our memories.
You'll see what a strong effect this has on the woman and her feelings for you. She won't forget her first date with you in a hurry. Just try it out and you'll be amazed how cool such a first date can be.
She will have the feeling that you have known each other for a long time and you will quickly build up the trust. If the trust is there, then you can build on this basis.