For ladies!!!!

in love •  7 years ago 

Habits that makes him run away!!!!

• Fighting in public!
If you have any issue with your man, please settle it indoors. Dont downgrade your self by fighting him in public. Wait till you go home before you tell him how stupid he is.
Fighting in the public embarrass men, and damages relationship.
This can scare him away.
Dont even fight the other lady when you catch her with your man in public.
• Dont criticise his family !
No matter how you feel about your mans family, making it known to him just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an irreparable wedge into your relationship. No one likes to hear others bash their blood relatives, Even when he also thinks his relatives are crazy, its still best to hold your tongue when the subject of his family comes up.
• Lying to him !
This kills trust. And if the man is not yet your husband, might stop all intentions of marrying you. Beware!
• Dont spy on him!
Forget his facebooks and twitter habits. Seriously, its not easy, but i assure you that it can give you a measure of peace when you eventually stop spying on him.
You may think you are doing yourself a favour by keeping up constant surveillance on his phones. Hell No!
You are just scaring the man away. He wont feel comfortable with you anymore.
So? Give him space!
• Allowing problems to fester.
Talk about issues maturely and amicably. Solve it right away, and dont ever let it linger for a long time. Don’t nag so much about it and once its solved, dont bring it up again.

Lastly,
• Don’t try to change him or improve him to your better taste. It wont work.
He may feel you are trying to control him.........FB_IMG_1518780138873.jpg

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hello Nice to meet you

Same here