- When you meet a girl, don't think of sex first;
don't ask for sex. Even if you are hot in pants,
pretend that you are a monk for some time.
.
2.Don't go searching for a virgin, if you are not a
virgin yourself. All the girls you have massacred,
who will marry them. Besides, there is no record
that virgins make better wives or are more
faithful
in marriage.
. - If you are a "modern man," don't look for a
"village girl that knows nothing." Soon you will
start complaining that she is too local to fit into
your circle of enlightened friends. Besides, a
village girl may "wise up" and trouble will start in
your home.
. - Don't look for a girl that is afraid of you: a girl
you can always intimidate. Fear is not respect.
. - Don't be carried away by a girl's physical
features: beauty, height, complexion, shape,
breast
shape, size and firmness, etc. They matter but
they are not critical. In the long run, child-
bearing
and age affect these features. Besides, when you
have married a woman for some years, her
physical features stop "turning your head."
At that time, what will attract you to her will be
what is inside of her: intelligence, wisdom, self-
control, patience, peace, gentleness, etc.
. - Don't be interested in a girl because of her
wealth or her parents' wealth. Even if she is
richer
than you or her parents are richer, make it clear
from the beginning that you will take care of
your
marriage yourself or that both of you will take
care
of your marriage together.
Don't accept your in-laws taking care of your
family responsibilities. Let them allow you to
build
your own home. After all, many of them were
poorer than you are now when they got married.
If
they want you to upgrade to their level, let them
support your business, e.g by supplying their
goods to you to sell and make your OWN money.
AM I RIGHT?...
.
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