There are many strange phenomena in love. These phenomena can sometimes confuse us, sometimes it is difficult for us to grasp, and sometimes we want to catch it, but we have lost it.
If you don’t have enough love experience, you will probably be troubled by these things. So even if there is something as emotional as love, we still need to learn, instead of letting our hearts do it casually.
I don’t know if you have had a similar experience. Sometimes, a man will continue to pursue you and express his admiration for you, but you actually don't like him at all.
After a while, he stopped his offensive and stopped pursuing. At this time, even if you take the initiative to pursue him in turn, he may not be interested anymore.
At this moment, you begin to wonder why this person has suddenly become so cold. Many girls are curious about why boys suddenly stop pursuing.
At this time, you click on the person's social homepage and browse the other person's life circle. You may suddenly discover that this person is actually pretty good and in good condition.
Then think about his previous politeness and kindness. I began to wonder why I looked down on him at the time, when he was actually pretty good.
Then after you calmly think about it, you realize that you actually like him a little bit.
Therefore, my advice is: Even if you don’t like it, don’t immediately delete those who pursue you.
Because maybe after a period of time, when you look back, you will feel that they are actually very good, and you are willing to accept this reversal. In the end, you may truly be together, completely subverting your previous expectations.
The problem of love is actually similar to the battlefield. One more friend is always better than one more "enemy".
Instead of deleting him, it is better to keep it as a channel for resource expansion in the future, or put it there, and perhaps one day you will find that this is your true love.
Multiple friends and multiple paths. No matter what this friend looks like, it's better than an enemy. This was originally a concept on the market and on the battlefield, but in fact it is also applicable to love.
Therefore, to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.