No dear, every person is complete !!! Why do you think you need someone? You can enjoy with people, but you can enjoy with yourself too if you love yourself. Attributes might be a reason to make you fall in love, but attributes can't be a reason to un-love someone. As i said, that actions do not matter !! God had nothing to do with Draupadi's marriage. It was Arjun's mother.
You can inform them that the path she is choosing doesn't seem correct to you, but you yourself can't assure that. You might be wrong. For eg., my mother always said that the correct path for me is to become a teacher and everything else I do is no good. But I know what's good for me and what is not. Yes it hurts to see someone going on a path that you consider is harmful, but you need to harden your heart and let them do it and learn themselves. Else neither would they ever understand you, in fact will dislike you for this and who knows if that might be the correct path for them. No one can predict future.
Yes it is very important to punish kids, else they can turn into brats. That is the same thing I am saying dear. If you love someone, it doesn't mean that you will always act soft on them. One needs to act hard but that doesn't change love. That's why I say that action can't change love.
I agree that nature when speaks for itself, it speaks harsh but it gives a million chances before it does that which we people don't give.
I am sorry for replying so late. I write one post daily and it becomes hectic. I will now decrease it to 1 post in 2 days so that I can easily reply to the comments. Thanks for reading it so carefully and replying to my article. God bless you :)