What is "Unconditional Love?
Acceptance of others is Necessary Always" - Motivation
Hello Steemians and Dtubians,
Today was a very motivating day. As I stated in my video, I wasn't able to talk to my Beautiful Fiance Vanja on all my breaks today because she was busy helping out her family with things they needed to do. But I am okay with that because it makes her "Happy" helping others and it makes me "Happy" that she is happy. So a "Win-Win" situation for everybody. I was able to talk to her on my last break and that is always wonderful. I love her so much.
I feel in life that sometimes we are called away from our personal lives to help others. I and My Fiance Vanja are called away often and we accept this always. So, on my breaks that I wasn't able to talk with Vanja. I just talked and listened in to conversations of some of the people I work with. Very interesting conversations indeed.
These guys were talking about their relationships and how they need to do certain things around the person they are with in order for them to be loved by them. Now, I am not a "Love Doctor" by any means of the words but, I do know "Conditions to Love" when I see them and hear them.
When you are with someone, "Unconditional Love" is necessary for both involved, not just one.
This truly is the only way it will last "Forever". Acceptance is needed. Obviously, you liked them when you first met them for who they were. So nothing should change later on in the relationship. True Love means "No Conditions". Everybody is going to change and hopefully for the better. Finding a "Happy Medium" in a relationship is necessary as well. Everyone is different. Likes different things. I love "Horror Movies" and "The Walking Dead" t.v. show. My fiance doesn't. She accepts that I do and once in a while will even watch an episode or two with me. This is called a "Happy Medium" or a "Give and Take".
Relationships require much attention and acceptance for them to flourish into a Beautiful lifetime of Love. Whether it's with friends, family or the one you love. We all must be willing to take the good with the bad (Unless the "Bad" is really bad.) and we must all learn to accept each other for who we are. Because we all deserve to be "Happy" and "Dramatic" or "Extreme" change can make us very "Unhappy" with our self and others. There is "One" exception I mention in the video. You will have to watch the video to see but in a brief word, the people who are unhappy with themselves need to change because people don't really want to be around others who are miserable, depressed or angry all the time.
It all begins with "Inner Peace" and "Believing in Yourself (Self Esteem)"...
I always say "Love Your Self Because you Deserve it. You are a Miracle of Life" and I truly mean this. I love everyone and everything living on Mother Earth and in the Universe.
I just wanted to let you all know that there truly are people out there who will accept you for who you are. Who will love you unconditionally. Who will be with you no matter what happens in life. Who truly care what happens to you. I know. I have My One True Love who does all of this for me and I for her.
Peace and Godspeed everyone. May every journey you take be a successful journey and carry on for generations to come. Remember to love your self because you are a miracle of life and you deserve it. And always prosper in #peace, #happiness, and #love.
Thank you to my Beautiful Amazing Fiance @vanjaavedal, our to Beautiful Children David and Angeles and all of my family in #norway, #thailand (My Brother @stewsak), #mexico and here in the #unitedstates for all of your wonderful #love, #inspiration, #motivation, and #support always. I love you all endlessly.
Thank you to all of you Steemians, Dtubians, @stube, @steemit and @adsactly for all the amazing comments, support and motivation always. I am humbled by all of you and I love all of you.
Have an amazing, blessed night. Love, @jeronimorubio
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"To love is to value. The man who tells you that it is possible to value without values, to love those whom you appraise as worthless, is the man who tells you that it is possible to grow rich by consuming without producing and that paper money is as valuable as gold . . . . When it comes to love, the highest of emotions, you permit them to shriek at you accusingly that you are a moral delinquent if you’re incapable of feeling causeless love. When a man feels fear without reason, you call him to the attention of a psychiatrist; you are not so careful to protect the meaning, the nature and the dignity of love.
Love is the expression of one’s values, the greatest reward you can earn for the moral qualities you have achieved in your character and person, the emotional price paid by one man for the joy he receives from the virtues of another. Your morality demands that you divorce your love from values and hand it down to any vagrant, not as response to his worth, but as response to his need, not as reward, but as alms, not as a payment for virtues, but as a blank check on vices. Your morality tells you that the purpose of love is to set you free of the bonds of morality, that love is superior to moral judgment, that true love transcends, forgives and survives every manner of evil in its object, and the greater the love the greater the depravity it permits to the loved. To love a man for his virtues is paltry and human, it tells you; to love him for his flaws is divine. To love those who are worthy of it is self-interest; to love the unworthy is sacrifice. You owe your love to those who don’t deserve it, and the less they deserve it, the more love you owe them — the more loathsome the object, the nobler your love — the more unfastidious your love, the greater your virtue — and if you can bring your soul to the state of a dump heap that welcomes anything on equal terms, if you can cease to value moral values, you have achieved the state of moral perfection."
Ayn Rand, For the New Intellectual, 147
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Agree. True love requires sacrifice. The only form of love that does not is so called self-love. But then you may ask if we should not love ourselves? But I will ask you in return are you talking about your flesh? Or your soul? How do you love your soul? But if you want to love your flesh, material nature of things which is temporary per se, what is noble in that? There is not much divine. But the source of true love is divine.
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I think Unconditional love is"thinking about the satisfaction of someone else with no idea for what we may get for ourselves."
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Yet again, a very deep sharing from your side. My master used to say to me "Love is all about giving. When you take , you fall in love and when you give, you rise in love. What do you want to choose?" I used to choose the later (Rise in love). But, truly giving yourself to another soul is not a simple task when it happens Unconditional Love flourishes and we transcend our physical dimensions.
Its always my pleasure to read your words. Lots of good vibes to you and your loved ones.
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