My name is James, and I'd like to introduce myself...
And in 90 seconds, I'm going to tell you about something that every male secretly desires.
It's something he REALLY wants...
More than love, more than money, and even more than sex, if you ask me.
The crazy aspect is that this one secret preoccupation contains the key to capturing a man's love, attention, and complete dedication for LIFE, yet hardly a single woman in a thousand is aware of it!
Those that do it generally seldom share it with anyone else.
I've seen the secret male preoccupation to be the key to a man's heart after working with thousands of great women as a relationship coach for the past 12 years.
Because once you grasp it, you'll be able to make the man of your dreams feel a certain way.
Even if you're concerned that you've piqued your man's curiosity by becoming intimate with him too soon...
Even if you've given up on your man ever committing to you...
Even if he's been avoiding your phone calls and texts,
...it doesn't make a difference.
Because the instant you turn on this hidden switch in a man's heart (a switch that 99 percent of women and men aren't aware of), he'll feel a surge of want for you that goes far beyond physical attraction... and changes the way he sees you.
He'll begin to imagine you in his life without even realising it, and every other woman, past and present, will evaporate from his mind.
Because you can tap into a man's most primitive instincts.
So by now you're probably wondering what this Secret Obsession is, right?
To put it another way, it's a newly found primal desire that has a huge influence on ALL MEN without them even realising it.
This primitive need consumes every man you know more than anything else... even his sex drive.
In fact, a man's mind is so hard-wired with this drive that it influences everything he does subconsciously.
From the moment he wakes up till his head hits the pillow at night, he is busy.
It's what I've come to refer to as "The Hero Instinct."
And I now believe that it is the most important secret to a man's innermost passion and focus in life.
In truth, it makes little difference how much a man is "in love" or "infatuated." He'll constantly feel like something crucial is missing if the woman he's with doesn't bring out his Hero Instinct, and he'll eventually seek out a woman who knows this secret.
When you know how to activate a man's Hero Instinct, on the other hand, his heart will be yours and yours alone. And he'll go to great lengths to make you happy.
I'm not sure how this is possible.
It's because, like hunger, thirst, and sex, the Hero Instinct is a BIOLOGICAL DRIVE. However, once this drive is activated, it becomes more strong than the other three combined. It's almost difficult for him to ignore it now.
And in a few minutes, you'll learn how I uncovered a "Secret Signal" that can turn on a man's Hero Instinct without him even realising it.
And I should warn you... If this is your first time using this secret signal on a male, be prepared... Because everything about you will become more seductive and enticing to him than any other woman on his radar.
But first, the greatest approach to learn how to harness The Hero Instinct is to observe it in action.
I'd like you to meet Rachel, a friend of mine.
She's one of my most favoured customers.
If you met her, I'm sure you'd become good friends right away, because she's like that with everyone.
But, for some reason, she always has the worst luck when it comes to finding love.
I got a call one night as I was about to leave the office to go home. Rachel was the one. I immediately recognised it... the catch in her throat... the pain in her voice.
I dashed to the Starbucks around the corner from my workplace to meet her.
It was evident from the dripping eyeliner and the swollen, puffy eyes that things were nasty this time.
Mike was mentioned by her. She was smitten and in love three months ago.
They'd met at his house.
Mike's voice was the first thing Rachel picked up on.
Rachel had no idea why he had been so quiet and aloof, or what she had done wrong.
They were almost inseparable before. It was almost as if you could feel the sparks shoot between them.
However, the "surprise" "drop-ins" had vanished. He didn't call at the end of the night any longer.
He would react hours later with short, one-word replies whenever she texted him.
He became eerily quiet, and he would react to text messages in hours, with brief responses.
Rachel maintained her composure and kept her cool.
Rachel, on the other hand, had reached a breaking point after two days of agonising stillness.
She didn't try to come across as "needy," but she did.
Rachel felt like she could finally breathe after hanging up the phone, and she slept like a baby for the first time in days that night.
She even came home from work early the next day to fix her hair and put on Mike's favourite dress. She then awaited his phone call...
Mike's call, of course, never arrived.
He never responded to her texts, no matter how many she sent.
Mike had called it quits on the romance.
He vanished from her life with no explanation or farewell.
Worst of all, she was too humiliated to even call for help from her pals.
She couldn't comprehend how something so wonderful could be shattered in such a short period of time.
I hadn't touched my coffee in a long time.I rubbed my eyes, cleared my throat, and asked if I could see her cell phone. I wanted to see how bad things actually were.
As I went through hundreds of unanswered texts, my heart fell.
However, something drew my attention.
Mike's last text to Rachel before pulling away was this one.
One line in particular caught my attention. It was almost as if he was pleading for aid.
That's when it dawned on me.
We dashed back to my office on a whim and rummaged through my notes from prior clients. That exact basic sentence from Mike's text message was buried in one of those notes.
Variations of the same phrase popped up again and again as I sifted through more of these notes.
I realized I had stumbled upon a pattern. And it struck me that this pattern was connected to a deep-seated obsession in every man's mind.
"I've realised that without you in my life, I won't be happy."
He never seemed to be more certain about anything. She could see the connection had shifted right away.
And it had done so.
Mike's deeper side began to show itself to her. He had become lot friendlier and more open.
He also appeared to be in better health and happy. They were back in love again in no time.
And to think, it all started with Rachel's 12-word text message's one hidden signal.
And to think, it all started with Rachel's 12-word text message's one hidden signal.
Now, if you're going through something similar to Rachel's experience, realise that it's not your fault.
It has nothing to do with what you did or didn't do.
Because understanding what drives a man's heart on a primitive, intuitive level, and how the small things you say and do deeply touch him, will always be elusive.
It all boils down to his comprehending his Hero Instinct.
You're undoubtedly wondering what the Hero Instinct is by now... right?
On the surface, it appears that every man has a profound innate desire to be needed.
And here's the key to understanding how it all works.
You become a man's fixation by expressing your own wants, not by meeting his.
To put it another way, it's not about attempting to please him; instead, it's about allowing him to delight you.
This gives him the impression that he's aggressively trying to win you over.
And here's why it's so important... It's practically hard for a man to feel in love if he doesn't believe he's deserving of it.
For the first time, your relationship feels real to him when you do it.
He has the impression that he is falling in love with you all over again. All of his previous relationships pale in comparison to the passionate, urgent love he has for you now.
And it's because you're the first person to introduce him to true love.
Observe how his desire to you grows exponentially when you do so.
Feel how much he adores, loves, and understands you as he's never been able to before.
Because right now he's at his best with you, and he'll be grateful every day that he found you.
When Rachel texted Mike, that's exactly what occurred.
That one whispered remark changed the way he saw himself and his life.