Love is Attraction. True or False? Part 1

The word love has been given a lot of attention not only in this present time but also in the past. Love is deeply engraved in the personality of humans that everybody tries in one way or the other to secure love and to feel secured. Due to this humans have taken great effort and deal of time to study and to understand. Some have even come to a conclusion that love is beyond our reach and impossible to comprehend. Even as all these fill everywhere,there are still some established standards concerning love. The misconceptions and confusion is so vast and prominent that the true,real and sincere part of love cannot be clearly seen. Naturally great results don't come from minor efforts,it comes from great efforts. The nature of man wants pleasure and enjoyment and is not ready to pay the price for it. Immediate gratification is the talk of the day while discipline and consistency is a thing of the past.

The movie industry and social media is not also helping. They sometimes produce contents that give people expectations that are far away from reality. For these and so many other reasons people have placed their mind on fantasies instead of reality. In this midst of all these,let us try to consider one major thing that is of great concern. Is love an attraction?

Attraction is a pull towards something or someone without touch. It is an inner drive towards something. Just like how a magnet attract nails that is how attraction pulls one towards the other party. This feeling of attraction has been associated with love due to its tendency and intensity. Attraction may be small or very high. The greatness of these attraction is dependent on many factors which includes complexion,gender,interests,likes,dislikes,body shape,character and lot more. Normally things that attract females are different from things that attract males. The feeling of attraction is caused by some hormones(chemical mediators) in the body. The hormones are the same hormones that causes happiness and anxiety. These hormones gives the feeling of attraction. No matter the level of attraction felt towards someone it is not enough to keep a relationship.

Attraction in itself is not love. It could be seen or regarded as the feeling that is called being in love. Now if you are in love with someone you feel a lot of things when with the person but experience has shown clearly that one can fall out of love. This happens when you find someone else or time passes with that person and you just don't feel the vibes anymore. What is causing this,why all of a sudden the profound love you were in just went away?You would be tempted to ask where has love gone or how did i loose it? The time and pace of this happening is quite different with everyone.