WHEN YOU DATE FOR THE IMMEDIATE YOU MISS THE ULTIMATE.

in love •  6 years ago 

NEVER DATE BLINDLY.....
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When you date blindly; you will end up waiting in vain. Date someone because you have seen a future, not because you want to see if it would work out.

SIGNS TO WATCH TO AVOID WAITING IN VAIN

  • You see this phase "I'M BUSY" is the relationship weapon of mass destruction. It may look as a perfect excuse, but no one gets busy for what he/she love. People claim to be busy, when there is no interest or there is a distraction. Therefore, watch when people tells you they are busy it really means that they don't have any future for you.
  • How can you explain "LOVE" without COMMUNICATION? Is like starting a building without foundation. Lack of COMMUNICATION and ATTENTION is because you are not in his mind. No matter the level of your love, don't make the benefits of marriage available in a relationship.
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DATING WITH NO INTENT TO MARRY..

Dating with no intent to marry is like going to the super-market without money; you either leave unhappy or take something that isn't yours. When you're real and ready for each other, no time is too long and no distance is too far. The problem is that many people are dating for fun not for marriage...

HOW TO KNOW THEM

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  • Their understanding of relationship is fun fun and fun while intimacy for them is sex. Always forming busy because their intention is not honest. Most often you're blame for every mistake or misunderstanding..
  • They can promise for Africa, but difficult to fulfill even a little. and If you decided not to call ; you will realize that you're the one keeping your relationship.
  • COMMUNICATION and TRUST is always an issue because someone is pretending. You will realize that When you date blindly, you plead for attention, my dear it's your right so don't plead for it.

In any relationship that you don't know what each other want; you may end up waiting in vain. If You are the only one that calls, send SMS, even plead for care, my dear you're dating in vain. A relationship of months and years, yet no commitment, I still don't know the reason you believe it will end in praise. Wake up ladies and gentle men.

How many times will someone promise to change, yet he/she keep doing same thing. Don't you think it will end in vain? Dear beautiful creature, Date wisely to avoid waiting in vain.

IN SUMMARY

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GUIDE TO DATE FOR MARRIAGE.

  • Be faithful...
  • Make your partner feel wanted i mean sense of belonging.
  • Respect your partner....
  • Trust each other..
  • Don't flirt with others. This is the key and the foundation of any relationship.
  • Give your relationship good attention because it's the pillar.
  • Never overlook COMMUNICATION and CARE.
  • Walk like you have been taken.
  • Don't treat your partner like you have an option..
  • Men ZIP UP; ladies CLOSE YOUR LEGS.

I know many of you will crucify me but please take this advice to Heart

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