4 mistakes on a first date

in love •  7 years ago 

Perfect / Perfect
Always think out a "perfect." People come to me and say: "I want him / her find," says psychologist, according to which it is unlikely to meet someone who is perfect. For this you have probably missed a lot of people who are good for you. Watch every person with whom you go out as a "potential perfect."

Not interested in other person
No water meaningful conversations. People who walk in meetings must learn to care about. Do not speak only for myself. Set a rule to speak for 5-10 minutes at most, and then ask a question of the other person. If you are not interested, you look like selfish.

You are not confident
Do not feel confident.
If you feel confident this will affect your broadcast - will look sexier, more beautiful and more charming. If you helps you stand before the mirror, smile and tell her a few words of encouragement.

You are not honest
You're not honest after the first meeting. Many of the links are confused because people were too shy or embarrassed not to be rejected.
Clarify your relationship, if man is not for you, do not leave it in the dark . You can always be honest and say that not enough things in common. Yes, you let him down, but will be honest. Most people are shy and insecure and leave things hanging in the air or do not have enough courage to look human again.

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This dilemma of being perfect of finding a perfect one for yourself has worsened the lives of many people.In this age of social media where most of the time our relationships communications happens by the channel of phones, our relations do not build and mature up in a natural way.On a social media interacting app the other one is not seeing our expressions and we can mutate them to look perfect to other just due to the fear of being rejected.This practice continues until we get into the more passionate relationship.When we become more close it ultimately reveals our actual self and then it causes lots of problems as you are not as per you have been portraying yourself.