IS IT GOOD FOR A LADY TO WOO A GUY?

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Two days ago, we celebrated lovers day generally known as valentine, among most of the lovers, guys are always the the one to make the first move towards approaching a lady thereby proposing to that her, at times a lady may love a guy sincerely but will always finds it difficult to approach such guy and confess her feelings to him, but in this article, I will discuss on why ladies should walk up to the guy they love and tell them their mind.

The inspiration behind this writeup emanates this morning when I was reading @iconnelly's love contest entry which he was nominated by @zizymena and he said that he was surprise when she nominated him but didn't choose him as her VAL in the just concluded valentine celebration, after reading the post, I commented here that she has a crush on him but she is finding it difficult to tell him.

Truth be told, women onlike men has the same right and freedom of expression, it is so lovely and romantic for a lady to walk up to a guy and tell him her mind, but most of the time our ladies will says;

• If I am the one to approach him first, he would not value and respect me

• If I am the one to approach him first, he would not be serious in the relationship.

• If I am the one to approach him first, he would take advantage of me.

• If I am the one to approach him first, he would be maltreating me.

• If I am the one to approach him first, he may think I am a prostitute.

Looking at all the above mentioned reasons, it starts with the IFs, and IFs significes excuses and excuses are for people who are not yet ready to do something for herself, a good and mature guy who knows the value of a real woman and also understand the ethics of life, the importance of emotions and being sincere to oneself will and can never attempt any of the above mentioned excuses because he knows that doing such will ruin his reputation and personality as a descent and mature guy.

But as a lady, you must work on yourself to be confidence without mincing words because what will determine the positive or negative response from the guy is your manner of approach, you should be bold enough to convince the guy and possibly make him to be afraid of you due to your seriousness and determination.

Ladies too have the same feelings guys have, if you see a man who portrays the qualities of the kind of man you need in your life, why not walk up to him in a descent manner and tell him what's in your mind, or do you prefer giving up your dream life partner for a mere excuses? it doesn't worth doing so at all, your life and future is very important than all the excuses, marriage is not a child's play, it is an exceptional course you must treat with utmost care and never to allow sentiment and excuses to robe you of your happiness.

I so much respect the song sang by one popular artiste **African China HERE which says:

IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY WALK UP TO HER AND TELL HER YOU LOVE HER BECAUSE NO CRIME IN LOVE

But in this case, I am turning it to the opposite sex:

IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY WALK UP TO HIM TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM BECAUSE NO CRIME IN LOVE.

They is no crime in loving someone and telling that person that you love him or her, it is better to be sinere to yourself than to die in the illusion of fear and excuses, expressing your mind is simply setting yourself free from heart attack.

SO IT IS VERY GOOD AND ACCEPTABLE FOR A LADY TO WOO A GUY, BUT THIS MUST BE DONE OUT OF LUST AND INFATUATION.

Love is the most beautiful thing when you find someone whom you are really in love with, love is also the most powerful force in the world, so don't stop loving someone and telling them you love them irrespective of your gender.

I believe this will go along way to change someone's mentality about a lady wooing a guy.

So what is your own opinion about a lady wooing a guy?, kindly drop your own views in the comment section.

THANKS FOR READING 

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