Hey !! All you know it is the biggest topic in our life.
Love vs. Arrange Marriage.
Marriage is a social institution. Young couples, whether in love or whether introduced through parents hope to tie the knot once they know they have found the right person.
Obviously, there are pros and cons in every situation. Which is better? Arranged or Love?
Both have own side effects and benefits.
- In Love you already know about your life partner whereas in Arrange you got a unknown Ghost :) One knows the weak and positive points in order to adjust easily in matrimony.
- In love you could have better understanding whereas in arrange you don't know even you can live with him or not. Mutual respect for each other is there as they know each other before itself
- in love you can live your life in your own way whereas in arrange you will follow all the rules of laws.
In arrange you don't know much about your would be life partner, so that is a biggest surprise. you will get lot of new information that is a different feeling.
Before marriage couples are doing lot of promises and make plans in love marriage but that will not complete due to family situations. that is the biggest truth.
In arrange you will get all things surprisingly and you always prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
Disadvantages of love marriage:
- Familiarity breeds contempt.
- Lack of support from family and relatives.
- If you partner face any financial difficulty so he has to handle themselves , No elder will there for help.
- risk of broken marriage. Because they chose their life partner by own choice. No elder help if there will any fighting between them.
But don't worry. All things depend on Mutual understanding between partners if you both have good understanding so can face all issues and handle all things.
Just Go with the flow.