Am I dating a _ _ _ _ _?

Have you ever been into that type of relationship in which the guy is way too nice? He says that he loves you and he cannot define you, he does a bunch of things for you and it seems that he could not live without you. And all of the sudden he just starts to act so weird and cold and then he just starts to be this kind of guy that you could not understand how come someone who grew up with 4 women doesn't know how to treat and respect women. And don't get me wrong I don't want to sound like a feminist (even though I consider myself one) but shouldn't we be respecting each other just because we are humans?

And also I can believe how someone who says that believes in karma can be so rude, mean and harmful to others. I totally understand that we can bring the best and worst of someone and vice-versa someone can bring the best and worst. But at this age shouldn't we have reached a level of mature to understand that what goes around comes around?

What is love? Baby don't hurt me! That song was famous in the 90s. Why people you love think they have the right to hurt you. Is our society fucked that we don't care about feelings? Or have we been hurt before that we haven't had the time to fix us and we think we have the right to revenge just because we want someone to feel what we felt when someone hurt us?

To respond to the title I would say that yes sometimes I'm dating the biggest prick in the world. But also I know that I can't say anything bad about my partner because at the end we are mirrors, therefore, a reflection of our own. The only thing I can say is that I need to check on more my actions and words. I want to be a person who actions and words come from love.