Seven Ways to Please Your Lover

in love •  2 years ago 

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Embracing and chewing the neck

An erogenous zone as stimulating as the neck deserves that description. Kiss, nibble, nip, and bite your way around their entire neck and throat. Listen to your significant other's preferences. Orgasm your partner by merely touching their neck and seeing if you can get them to respond.

Interconnected Respiration

Take a moment to breathe together and align your energies before you make love. Focus on deep abdominal breathing as you hold eye contact. Continue this until you can sense the energy passing freely between you. Join your vitality with your partner's from the tailbone to the heart.

Say What Kind of Love You Want to Receive

Share the love by taking turns describing your ideal romantic experience. Define your terms. Educate them on where and how to touch you. You could even do it in front of them by caressing your own body. Whether you enjoy having your hair pulled or not, how you prefer to be kissed, your favorite sexual fantasies, etc.

Take on the form of a Deity

Participate in a costume contest by dressing as a deity, such as the Hindu love god Krishna and his consort Radha. Taking on their personas, try to picture what it would be like to have a passionate encounter as this deity and deity. Act out the parts of the "Divine Lovers."

sexually suggestive massage

Treat your partner to a sensual massage. Do each step slowly and deliberately, and make long, deliberate strokes. Figure out what makes them happy and expand your repertoire of activities to include those. Use the 3 Keys of Sky Dancing Tantra—breath, sound, and movement—to assist them in developing their "pleasure body."

Read Some Explicit Poetry

Read some sensual poetry. Some of my favorite poets are Rumi, Hafiz, and Kabir. Take some time to read sexy poetry to your partner. To really wow your partner, write an erotic or ecstatic poetry and read it out to them. Conjure up a Haiku. Put your faith in the healing power of words.

Create Art Out Of Love.

Challenge yourself to a deeper level of love than you've ever experienced before. Allow love to use you as a canvas. To be an artist in love is to know that you can never fail. The human form is love itself. Give yourself permission to feel moved and then tell others about your ideas.

The ancient practice of Tantra encompasses every aspect of life as a means to enlightenment. Every human being has an inherent desire to receive physical contact and emotional affection. One way to tap into your vital life energy and travel to otherworldly dimensions is through sexuality. It's beneficial to both the giver and receiver to learn how to experience and offer pleasure. Always remember to love yourself and others. Share your happiness and help make the world a better place.

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