Why do people Cheat?

in love •  7 years ago 

CHEATING IS A CHOICE! It is never been an accident, it is always a CHOICE.
Nowadays, we've seen lot of post from facebook or other social media accounts about cheating. Husbands cheats on their wife or boyfriends cheats on their girlfriends or vice versa. What are the forms of cheating? Cheating is not limited to having a fling or (char char) while you are having a relationship with someone. The moment you entertain some flirtatious and meaningful messages from someone is a form of cheating. When you intentionally deleted your convo with someone for her not to see your messages is another form of cheating. The moment when you said to someone that you are "Single" where in fact you are in relationship is already cheating. Why do some people cheat?

These are some 10 reasons why people cheat on their partners.

  1. People cheat because they fell out of love from their partners.

  2. People cheat because they are confused, undecided and not happy. Not happy to the point that they look for that happiness to another person

  3. They cheat because they are not contented with their partners. They are not satisfied with the current one.

  4. They cheat because of pure lust.

  5. They cheat maybe because they are victims of unpleasant past. Maybe they were cheated on before and now they're scared to be cheated again.

  6. Because they are not certain to what they feel towards their partner.

  7. They cheat because they are born cheaters.

  8. Maybe because they don't have the love in their childhood in their families. They are lonely.

  9. They cheat maybe because they didn't feel the excitement or spark that they felt before with their partners, that's why they find someone that would bring back the excitement that they wished for.

  10. Lastly, they cheat because they don't live a Godly life, they want to taste the bittersweet fun of selfishness.

Cheating is a selfish act of a coward person. If your man/woman really loves you, he/she will never cheat or do things that would hurt you. Iv'e been cheated and lied to but it's totally fine. It's okay to be cheated and hurt, because it teaches us to be strong and to be a better person. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe someone better will come in your life that is strong enough and who will see your worth.

So steemit friends, why do people cheat? Please feel free to comment. Thank you and have a great day!

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they cheat because they don't have the word loyal and honest to their partner. Kryptonia @reatimtim

a person cheat for one main reason.... NEVER BEEN CONTENTED

Korek gyud te

It's best not to cheat and my Kryptonia account is @ianstevenson

Indeed.

Cheating is so rampant this days. So thanks for having this post chelle for this serves as a reminder! This deserve an upvote, comment and resteem thats why im doing it right now.

Thank u so much @rubelynmacion

Todos hacemos trampaaa todos . Vengo de KRYPTONIA usuario @toleduis

Cheating is the common problem in many relationship. Emotional roots can lead to affairs both emotional and physical in nature.The best thing not to is DONT cheat.
Kryptonia @shella

Indeed true.

Look like complicated but its different when girls cheat. Why? Simple bcoz a man can cheat but in other words it is always a cheat. And not for girls coz if girl cheat they give affection and love. The thing is it is too different i am not a cheater it is just a based on environment.

That's true, some boys cheat just because of pleasure but if girls cheat it's a different story. There is already love in it

Nice post followed and resteemed.

Thank you.

Hmmmm....... This something I have been dealing with for the past two years now. My GF is always cheating on me . Giving me headache and other things. I don't want to leave her too. Buh am hoping he can change for Good.

Piece of advice my friend. Everybody deserves a second chance but it your gf cheated on you many times I think you have to think twice my friend because if she really loves you she will never cheat and she will never do things that will hurt you or ruin your relationship. I know u love her but please love yourself too. Self love is never selfish. Don't beg someone to stay on your life , you are more than that true love is given freely. Once the trust is broken it cannot be fixed easily. Someday, someone will come in your way and will love u and treat you right.

Thanks for that. I have been trying to let go but I find it difficult to do. But I think I have to care more about myself than this relationship.

At first its difficult but in time you will get over her and will laugh at your mistakes

What is cheating? There is no cheat in the world. If you thought someone cheat you, You just try to realize this person never loved you truly.

If you love someone, leave him in the sky.
If he comes back, he's yours.
And if he does not come back, then he never loved you ,
and would not be.

                               (collected from Tagore)

I feel that cheating is doing anything that you wouldn't do if you husband/wife were around.