Mistakes we make when choosing a partner

We are looking for that all-consuming love, and every time a new partner enters our lives, we say we've found what we need. Is it? Are our attempts, demand, not pushing us in the wrong direction?

1. We choose a partner whom others think is right for us.

2. We forget about the emotional compatibility that is important for the harmonic relationship.

3. We try to change at any price our half.

4. We believe the new relationship will solve all our problems.

5. We are in touch only to avoid being alone.

6. We look through the pink glasses of what is happening between us.

7. Repeat mistakes from previous relationships .

8. Do not attach importance to good communication with your partner.

9. We can not distinguish between lust and love, love and affection.

10. We change ourselves, our ideals, to be liked.

11. We go too quickly into a serious commitment like marriage, children.

12. We have no love standards and we chose our partners chaotically, or we only respond because someone noticed us.

13. We believe that we are the only one for him / her and we accept it for granted.

14. Do not pay attention to red flags, warning signs.

15. We keep in touch with a person who controls every part of our lives and loses our identity.

16. We view the relationship as a business deal, a lifeboat that will provide us with financial security.

17. We choose our partner only for external features that we like.

18. We give more than we get.

19. We do not compare our life goals with those of our partner.

20. We try to find someone just like us.

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