In any relationship, we are always faced with these questions: do you love me, do you trust me, do you even understand me? Depending on who is feeling insecure, these questions are asked by males and females.
Whichever way you look at it, they are questions of doubts. A party is already feeling cheated on or insecure.
As a guy, i have been faced with these questions and i have also asked them at one point or the other. Sometimes in a relationship, you just have this unexplainable feeling for your spouse that you start acting weird.
The people asking these questions always look insecure while those we ask see themselves as demi-god and especially when the 'love' is not truly there.
I have read so many articles that suggest trust is more important in a relationship. Some of these articles opted also for understanding instead of love. In any case, none of the writers is truly an expert because relationship is one of the mysteries we are yet to solve.
Which is more important between trust and love?
Trust is an assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something. Source. When you trust someone, you will have 'zero level' of doubt for that person. No single doubt is entertained by you because you have blocked everything that could trigger it.
Love on the other hand is an unexplainable feelings of affection and intimacy for someone.
Sometimes, you need to trust someone before you can fully and truly love the person. In another instance, you need to love the person first and then trust the person later. In any case, the two are important.
The question now is which one between the two is more important. Like i rightly noted above, many believe trust is more important. For these people they believe that no matter how you love your spouse, if you do not trust him/her then the relationship will collapse.
For them, you must not entertain doubt within you. You must always trust your woman or man. But i think they are forgetting that without love, trust is useless.
Love and trust work hand-in-hand and to always trust your spouse you need to love him/her. I will say love is more important. Trust needs love as its foundation to be meaningful.
To say trust is more important is to 'kill' love in that relationship and when love is gone, the relationship itself is gone.
For me, the two are very important but love should be given priority over and above trust in a relationship.
What do you think? Should trust be placed above love in a relationship?
Thanks for your time.
The truth is that is possible for you to trust someone and not love the person but is not possible for you to truly love someone and not trust the person; true love go hand in hand with trust. You can't truly be in love without having trust on the person you love.
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You may be right Cj, but trust is seperate entity from True love. They only must exist simultaneously to get the best out of the relationship.
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When you love someone, you tend to trust them , but that is not a guarantee that you will trust them. The love you have for them will only make you bling to see the severity of their distrust.
i like this topic meen.
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I feel that u can't separate the two or put priority on either. For any relationship to work u need both love and trust. Where love is short, trust prevail. Relationship in whole baggage a lot of attributes for it to be successful i.e for any relationship to work u need love, trust, respect, understanding, n a whole lot of attributes. None of these attributes can have priorities cos all must work together.... My opinion
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For me trust is more impirtant than love. You can love someone but dont trust him. If the trust you have on someone will move you to love him
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Bros! Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you trust and love, then you can love forever and happily without doubt, but if you love without trust, you will be in a disturbed relationship. So go and trust your bae now. Cheers!
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