Save your boyfriend

in love •  7 years ago 

"Let's break up."
When you hear this from your boyfriend, you can't believe it. I'm so fine. Why did he leave me?
You want to save your boyfriend, did you ever try to begged, go to dead to tie up lousy dozen, to swear, you did everything you think you can save him, but he still for you.
There is nothing wrong with your efforts, but the way you work is inefficient, which can lead to a feeling of being in a state of flux.
So, what's the best way to save your boyfriend?
One, save your boyfriend from your reasons

A lot of women like myself, is that the boyfriend take advantage of their own women try very hard to squeeze each other, constantly play small temperament, kept "as", and finally drove her boyfriend to break up limit, and there are many reasons to leave you a man, such as meet beautiful girl than you;
Being influenced by family members or relatives, can't stand the princess's disease or the queen's disease;
The women's congress is a small work;
Women do not understand support, praise men;
Men don't like to be tied down, to love freedom, but in fact, the bottom is that he is not happy with you.

Save your boyfriend's attitude

First, you have to believe that your back will be a success, the other party before you haven't made any action must be not willing to resurgence of this section of love, the other will be very cold, even the relationship between processing very think you be absolutely.
Tell myself, I have no way back, I don't want to miss this marriage, I will be successful.

Second, get rid of negative thinking and prove everything with your actions.
At present each other there will be one hundred, one thousand reasons to tell you, why you don't fit, why he didn't want to compound, but remember, it is only now he don't want to and you compound, doesn't mean you are not happy with.
So use your actions to prove everything.
You're two of a kind, but it's just the middle of your hard times.

Third, face the contradictions of your love head-on.
If you are a time worshipper, think time will change everything.
But, you know, time doesn't completely erase the conflict between you.
In fact, it is in the process of the two people's common friction, when the friction has been greater, it is natural that they are on the way to break up.

  1. Save your ex's talking skills

First, don't mention the old.
A thing of the past for you, it may be said is a mixed blessing, if your topic once talked about the past, no matter how, can make each other more or less remember once happened during that period, so, once those unpleasant will unconsciously emerge in your mind.

Second, don't interrupt the conversation.
When chatting is going on, people are often subject to subjective awareness and want to express their opinions. At this point, you should keep silent and listen to the other person.

Third, ask a simple question, if someone else can answer, then there will be no talk.
Instead, ask the other person what they're interested in, stay positive in the conversation, and show your positive and cheerful side. Don't let the other person find you too boring.

The way to save your boyfriend

First, refuse to rot.
If it's a remedy, it's probably the most inefficient way to recover.
And it's a bad way to break the relationship.
There have been a number of cases of death, often successful, and since it turns out to be an inefficient and useless method, why do you still choose to die?
It's wise to refuse to act as a clingy piece of gum, to avoid random ACTS and to rot.

Second, identify yourself.
Making mistakes is everyone's way of doing things, but after making mistakes and failing, you still persist in mistakes, which is a big problem.
People who tend to be too stubborn tend to be less likely to recover emotionally.
Because these people are too subjective, emotional conflict detection ability low, stubborn opinion.
Reverse love should reject stubbornness, let the dawn of change shine on oneself.
(mentor V: love_cure)

Third, reduce conflict points.
You must "work against" the object, which will not only help solve the problem, but also increase the contradiction between the two sides and worsen the development of things.
What you need to do is to reduce the conflict point. What you need is to agree with each other. Too much defense will only make the other person more disappointed and more determined to leave you

Fourth, take action.
Many people talk in the mouth of invincible, but when it comes to action, it is powerless.
The other person is not a child who has no ability to think, what kind of person you are, she has already found out in the process of the process, too much verbal commitment, will only make her more disgusted with you.

Back is a very the attention, time and efficiency does not require you ready everything, but you don't do something wrong, the minimum because every time you do one thing wrong, save the difficulty level will rise, save time will be extended.
Therefore, if you want to save your boyfriend, please pay attention to the content of the above article, and your redeeming path can also go a little more smoothly.
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it's good thanks