Life is about Loving who you marry and not marrying who you love

The wise man said " life is about loving who you marry and not marrying who you love".
Wait! Read carefully and listen very attentively to understand what it means.
Majority of people who got married marry whom they love. Normally is abnormal to marry who you hate. Meanwhile people married who they hate due to family persuasions, material things, awful deals, as a means of payment etc.
There are a lot of cheating, beating rape, fighting, maltreat, divorce and even murder from families in the world.

These are people that got married to the love of their lives . Now do you think they don't love each other when they got married? - they loved each other but the problem is not marrying who you love, rather is loving who you marry.
Is just like someone dreaming about a particular job, working so hard to get that wonderful job, he/she falls in love with the job and even spends hours committing to get the job and when the get it, they started developing a passionate hatred for it and with time, they'll start losing their commitments until they quite the job. That's how it is in marriage. Here is another question "are there things you don't love engaging yourself into and with time when you start loving it you find out is becoming your hobby or something you can't do without?"-----
People fails to do the works in marriage, they fail to do the loving in marriage because they're tired to commit to the end. Outside marriage singles can do anything to get the person they love to be theirs.

Start loving who you marry, keep loving them and never stop loving them so you can have a successful marriage. #LOVE PLANET