There are things you should do and you should not do in a quarrels, and this is one of the things you should not do in a quarrel!
" Don't Use Violence "
No violence in a relationship when a quarrels, using violence will not solve the problem, but it will just worsen the situation. Violence not right for a relationship, but softness is most appropriate for a relationship. So, don't ever use violence if you want your relationship continues. If already using violence in a relationship , then there is no love in between, there is only sadness, hatred and fear. In a quarrels certainly very uncontrollable emotions and it can lead to violence emerged. Violence will not appear if there is no trigger.
Problems that occur in a relationship can lead to violence. So you should be more careful in a relationship, don't let a violent quarrels occur, if your lover seems to want to do violence to you, you have to get out first, so vice versa, if you cannot hold your emotions and want to do violence, you should step aside, calm your mind and your body, lest violence break your relationship, whereas the problem is a small matter, and even if it's a big problem, you also don't need to use violence.
Not all problems can be solved by violence, violence is only for the ignorant, because violence will not solve the problem of love that requires logic, gentleness and affection that make sense. If using existing violence only adds another problem.