Falling in love like Taylor Swift

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You all know how quickly Taylor Swift falls in and out of love, well she has admitted she's a hopeless romantic. If you're one as well, you most likely have the same problem. I confess I do and have had my share of falling in love quickly, and then just as fast the relationship failing.

Number of relationships Taylor Swift has been in

Joe Jonas
Tom Hiddleston
Harry Styles
Jake Gyllenhaal
Conor Kennedy
Calvin Harris
Taylor Lautner
John Mayer

Let's face it we wouldn't have any of those hit songs if it wasn't for these fast failed relationships.

Ever wonder why you have no luck in making the relationship last or have no luck in finding the one, here's why:

You're dating the wrong people
Finding and being in love is number one on the list for hopeless romantics, therefore when a man comes a long and has an interest in you, you fall in love at the drop of a hat. It'll go well in the beginning, but eventually, it'll fizzle out because he's not the right one for you or he's got a bad boy image.

Living in a fairytale
You expect everything to be perfect and live in a world where nothing can go wrong and well let's face it; you're in a fairytale. Don't despair; I'm a sucker for this. In reality, nothing's going to be perfect, and when all the wrongdoings and faults come out, the fights may start because you can't handle the imperfection.

Making compromises
Compromises can be a good and a bad thing. It's always a bad idea for hopeless romantics especially if the agreements are only benefiting him in the relationship. As he can pick on you complying with all his needs eventually, you'll be doing all the giving and taking nothing in return.

Needy
Your ears screech when you heard the word - Clingy but let's face it we are that way inclined without even knowing it sometimes. It'll only appear when the guy starts pushing you away. You'll do anything to make him stay and eventually you'll be left heartbroken and crying for months with a box of chocolates and crooning along to Taylor's heartbreak songs. I can't count the number of times this has happened to me.

Heartbreak and always searching for love
After your heart heals, you'll be ready to start this downward pattern again. If you don't want another disaster, next time wait patiently for the right guy to come in your path and don't fall in love so quickly. Give it a chance and let the relationship grow.