That thing called "LOVE" - My opinion and a little advice on love

Wazzup Steemians!

First of all, i just want to ask a few questions. Have you been in love? Have you experienced that out-of-this-world feeling in your heart? If yes, then that's good to hear🙂. Well how about being heartbrokened? To the point where you feel like you're not yourself anymore? That's what i'm about to share to you guys.

Love is one of the most powerful thing in this world. People will do the craziest idea that they can think of in the name of love. That is why you need to be very careful when getting into this kind of relationship. I know that feeling inlove and being loved by someone is pretty damn amazing. You think about him/her every minute of everyday. But do you think about yourself? Do you have some love left for you? Just for yourself? The reason why people get hurt really bad is because they gave like everything to the person they love and completely forgetting about themselves. It's not that if you don't give all the love to him/her, you don't love them at all. It's simply called "self respect" and that respect is very important if things doesn't go as you wanted. The hurt that you feel may knock you down, but you will always find the courage to stand back up.

Now, for everyones info, i want to know you guys that this is only my opinion and guide for you. Only you have the choice and decision to make for yourself.

This time let's talk about courtship or the idea that someone likes you. In this kind of situation guys, when a person likes you, and you like that certain person too, so what are you waiting for? Be a couple. It's that simple. Now i want to highlight about the girl side. When a guy courts you and you like him and then you said yes, it's not about being an "easy to get" kind of girl. Well the people will judge you that way but it's not important. What's important is your practical thinking and how to protect yourself not getting hurt that deep because when you choose to let the person pursue you for how many months or years, you will be the one to suffer. Let just say you let him court you for months. Now you've fallen for him that much because of his actions and you said yes eventually. But after a few months of you guys being together, you found out that he's a jerk. That hurts! Pretty bad actually. And believe me when i tell you that when it comes to courtship, all guys are nicer than all the angels and saints just to get your sweet yes. For a guy like me, it's sad but it's true. Don't be fooled by those actions specially in the courting stage. Give him your yes already and see where that goes. If he's a jerk, leave him.ASAP! If he's a good guy and you can feel that he is sincere, well then continue the relationship. It doesn't have to be that complicated. Just give chance. You'll be surprised where that chance could take you.

That's it guys! Thank you for reading this!
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Have a good day!

-Kens-