Nooo! Please don't afford to think like that.
Yes, the image of love in our society has been reduced horribly, but it's the cinema (Hollywood) that contributes to this type of thinking. So many movies show utopic ideas of love, which simply aren't real and do not exist in our real world, and therefore people set their standards high following what they see and believe is the idea of love. But once you meet someone you feel a spark with, and once both of you aren't afraid of feeling that spark and admitting it to yourselves, you'll flow into the right path of what you're supposed to do.

Love turns into hate when there's a miscommunication between the person you love and both of you don't care to resolve that miscommunication. What happens is that both of you start making assumptions about each other & each other's actions and neither talk about it until more and more assumptions build up on another that are false, over a long period of time. That's when the negative energy comes in, that's when the 'hate' starts to form, and in the end you're so caught up in your assumptions and opinions that you fail to perceive the TRUTH. To prevent this from happening the most important thing is to communicate, communicate, communicate!! Ask whatever is on your mind, always talk to them about your fears in your relationship and everything will go the right way.

Hope this could maybe change your idea on love, because it has oh sooo much to offer, and with you thinking this way you're already making assumptions & distancing yourself without experiencing the real thing!