A real man in ten words

in man •  5 months ago 

Some women feel that a “real man” does not exist and is impossible to find, and other women trust their partners and believe they made the right choice.

If you are in a relationship with a man and want to test his true masculinity, you must monitor his behavior to know if he is selfish. Certainly, you will not fail to notice the difference between the “selfish man” and the “gentleman,” which does not change even after a long period of time in your relationship.

“A real man,” as described by the lifehack website, does everything he can to make his partner happy, and you have no choice but to fall in love with him and love his kind treatment.

In the following report, we show you, Madam, 10 qualities of a “real man” that if your partner possesses, congratulations to you:
1- He loves and respects his partner as she is

A real man will respect and love his lover’s mind, thinking, lifestyle, culture, and personality. He will not only love her body or her physical beauty, because it will disappear. He will focus on her inner beauty, because it will remain. He will treat her like a lady with all dignity and respect. He will not mind surprising her by preparing a meal for them to eat together or inviting her over. Dinner is in an elegant restaurant, and the man also expects respect and appreciation from her in return.
2-Committed to the relationship

He does not cheat, is loyal to his partner, and knows that he must make an effort to keep his relationship with his lover strong and healthy. He commits to communicating with her all the time, nourishes and strengthens the relationship through continuous, honest communication. If you are with a real man, you can trust him. He will remain loyal no matter what happens and expects you to do the same to him.

3-He protects his partner physically and emotionally
This does not mean that a woman is weak and cannot protect herself, but that a man protects her in different ways, provides her with financial security if she needs it, and makes her feel that everything will be okay. He is ready to throw a good punch if necessary to defend her from a physical attacker. However, he thinks before he acts, and calculates his moves.
4- He achieves his partner mentally and sexually
A real man knows that his relationship with his beloved is not just for sex. There are common goals. In addition, he whispers to her how beautiful and sexy she is to him. He shares meaningful discussions with her about life, plans for the future, tells jokes with her to lighten up, and spends happy times with her. He is intelligent and sensitive to his actions at the right time.
5- Leads the initiative
A woman may choose his clothes for a man, but he is supposed to step forward and be able to address the issues in his relationship with his beloved. Women are not expected to solve problems. If he is unsure how to handle an issue, he will seek help or advice.
Some men avoid taking the initiative for fear of criticism - this is not a real man - a real man deals with problems, and takes the initiative to solve them.

6- He steps forward and makes difficult decisions
Real men are decisive and can make crucial decisions in their relationships with women. A loving man does not leave the decision to his partner. He seeks to understand her point of view and opinion without controlling her, but rather to improve their situation. If he is hesitant to make decisions, then he is not a “real man.” Women only love a decisive man, and they do not love a cowardly man.
7- He takes responsibility for his decisions
He does not blame his partner in an attempt to defend his mistakes. He simply admits his mistakes, says: “I’m sorry,” and knows that apologizing does not diminish his manhood. He has the confidence, courage, and integrity to admit his mistakes and strive to correct them.
8- He speaks about what is on his mind
If he disagrees with a woman, he will not be afraid to say what is on his mind without fear. He will discuss with her without losing his temper. This does not mean that he is indifferent or treats women poorly. He just doesn't agree with her on everything.
9- He defends his relationship
Family, friends, and even strangers may sometimes ask inappropriate questions, or make annoying remarks about a man's relationship, and in such cases, a real man will stand up for his girlfriend.
10- He does not seek another life in which his beloved is not present
He keeps his lover's presence in his future life plans.

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