Marriage is crazything

in marriage-crazything •  7 years ago 

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A story of a steemian friend who says that if he talk about marriage, everyone around him should not get married

Indeed, marriage is crazy
I sometimes get a wedding invitation to tell me that be married at an age that I think is too late compared to the past

Of course, where is the time of marriage?
Nevertheless, socially, there is a certain age appropriate think about it

I guess it means a only recommendations

By the way..
The friend I know is ...
Even though you know that you are not out of the level of recommendation age ...

I've already done it 20 years ago
I advise you to try

My thoughts about my marriage that I thought for a while ...
Nevertheless, my conclusion is to marry.

I know a lot of people who live a single life around me
Often they embarrass their lives
Compared to the amount of happiness I have in the opposite benefit
I always think that I am much bigger

I do not think there's anything in this world that's objective
(I call the collection of subjective thoughts as objectivity)
Of course this is my own idea

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Korean movie poster "Marriage is crazy"

Affirmative of marriage
I think marriage is crazy

How can be not crazy be with a single person all my life?

As people usually saying,
Sometimes the relationship between couples who have to live with love
sometimes 'loyalty', 'family' rather than "wife" or "husband"

Nevertheless, marriage is obviously crazy
'You must be crazy to reach your goal or can not reach'
I think this applies to marriage as well

The marriage is judged as 'because everyone is married' and 'it is time to marry'
The marriage that comes with this idea is same that hope for success like finding a needle on a sandy beach

Sorry that I have not seen a loved one for a second
If you are not happy all the time you are watching her or him
You should not marry

I am not a high-level creature enjoying platonic love
Do not doubt my love for each other
Even if I did not ask, I came to feel the love

People around me asked me
Do you still see your wife pretty in your eyes?

Yes!

My eyes still look pretty in my wife wearing a t-shirt in jeans
Still now I am sorry that I can not add one to her

But
It was not every moment

Follow the lady who works at the bar
I fought to pull my hair out of my husband's heart
A word thrown by a lady to a wife

"Hey! How many customers are you have!"
"You can not even manage a single customer to you, so where are you going to run around?"

It sounds funny, but it's not funny for me
To protect marriage
It was because there was not a single one without effort

If you think that only love will keep your marriage alive
You are still a beginner in marrige

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If Romeo and Juliet, who were married in love despite the opposition of the family, succeeded in marriage

When the feelings of love are getting smaller
I do not doubt that I must have split

I keep putting my pods on my eyes
If there is no effort to put the pods in the eyes of my loved ones
Marriage is not maintained

So..
'In the end, There's nothing free in the world'
A marriage that requires a lot of effort than you think!
This is crazy

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Korea's representative beauty actor Sungyu Lee

Beautiful enough to lose my mind
At that time, when I met Sungyu Lee

I did not forget that my wife was only my woman

Well ..

Nevertheless, do you want to make a marriage that needs your best efforts?

Nevertheless, if you answer "yes"
I would like to recommend that you do not put off with you and get married right away

Marriage is one plus one.
It is the only way to find greater happiness

Today
For all those who want to do this crazy thing
I sincerely wish each other to be crazy to each other for a lifetime of time

After work
I want to see my wife quickly :-)

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Marriage indeed isn't meant for people that are only in love with each other. But, for people who are crazy enough to work and fight yoghurt for their relationship to work. My friend who is married now, had her wedding day extended by a year, because the Church Marriage Council thought they both weren't ready for marriage. Because they weren't on the same page a you many things, they were only 'inlove' with each other(which seemed to be fading away with discoveries of personality differences).
They spent the extra year under intense counselling, studying and marriage workshops.
They've been married for two years now with a son, understand each other better and are happy.
We are taking our time to build our relationship since we know that, marriage is forever.
Thanks for sharing this @sochul, just what we needed today.

@adedoyinwealth You are a really nice person.
Marriage without thorough preparation is not happiness but disaster.
Your wise friend made a wonderful decision and seems to have a really successful marriage.
Many men and women seem to marry only the power of love.
I hope there will not be many failures because I have no serious thoughts about marriage.
But ... I thought that marriage is wonderful, so I posted it today.
I hope that more people will have a happier marriage

Put my heart to your wonderful comments

Thank You very much for your kind complement nim. I'm happy for you that you are enjoying your marriage. Congrats!.
I'd sure let you know when we pick a date for our wedding.
Best regards from,
Adedoyin Wealth.

Little wonder, Apostle Paul admonished, that it is even better to remain single. Marriage is really a crazy thing but I guess that's what makes it unique and different from a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

Marriage just like anything good and worthwhile requires Commitment and hardwork as well as good communication. There are no short cuts or formula to having a great marriage, there's a process to follow which has to do with what works best for you.
Thank you for this wonderful piece @sochul, today is actually the first day of getting the pronunciation of your name correct, I've been biting my tongue all this while, hahaha

Thank you @joshuaetim nim
'nim' is a Korean word that is used in a similar meaning to English sir.
In your wonderful comment I wanted to call you up.

I am 20 years of marriage
I posted on the hopes that others would enjoy a happy marriage like myself.
Thanks to many people who read my posts and commented like you.

My English is not good.
However, it is fun to read and talk in spoken English even if it is inadequate.

I'm happy I've learnt a new word today, "nim" and a Korean word at that. I admire your honesty, I'm also a non-native speaker of English language, so we owe each other no apology if our English is a bit less proficient, hahaha. We've tried as non-native speakers.

20 years of marriage is a significant milestone. I was barely 4 years old when you got married, there's so much for one to learn from your wealth of experience in marriage so far, well done.
I hope to visit Korea one day when I have the opportunity, and the first word I'll speak when I get there will be "nim", it was a privilege to learn this one from you today.
Thank you @sochul.

My friend @joshuaetim
You know the meaning of Korean 'nim' through me
I am very happy to say that I will use it when I visit Korea.

Now is
I replied to your comment on the post I wrote yesterday
I know you went to the post I posted today.
My heart is already glad that I can see your reply.

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But now I can not make a child anymore.
Because the vasectomy closed the factory door HAHAHA Thnx bro :-)

The way people prepare for weddings only if they can put half of it into their marriage then it will be amazing, but no all they are after is how the wedding is going to be one in town without preparing for life after the wedding.

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You're right, my friend.
I also did not know what to do after marrying my wife.
I think I learned one by one as I went through one year.
All the reasons why I could live a pretty life with my wife now
Because we gave each other up for each other.

Thnx bro I really appreciated your comment

Love actually doesnt keep people in marriage. Understanding and Commitment does. If your patner isnt making you happy all the time, one had better hold on till you're sure u gonna be happy together. Marriage is actually crazy 'cos it can make one lose his/her mind. One shouldnt be blinded before taking a marriage step. 'Cos if u'r with him/her, its forever sealed. Sobone should be very careful so as not to be married but living single. Thank you @sochul for this

Marriage in situations where there is no perfect understanding of each other beyond love is a disaster.

It is better to live alone rather than married

Can I understand the comments you sent to me in this way?

If I'm right ...
I agree 100% with your opinion XD

Yes you are

@olawalium come and read this

This is deep darling.

So deep. No ill feeling. I believe you understand perfectly dear

Hahaha ofcourse my sugar.

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아님 교수님?
부럽습니다 ^^

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sochul can i rent ur sp?

I still read through it. Your English is improving.

Marriage is a good thing, going by what you've written, for I'm not yet married. But the thought of it scares me.

I hope you do not worry too much.
I did not know that marriage was like this before I got married.
First of all, it is the happiness of marriage to love eachother party and try to keep it

True.