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Don't choose love into marriage because of career worship
The host, Mo Han, talked about her husband Zhang Peimeng's domestic violence in an interview with the media some time ago.
And how they have feelings for Zhang Peimeng, two people so as to enter the process of marriage.
From her own description, it can be seen that she adores the sport as a profession.
Therefore, when he came into contact with Zhang Peimeng for work reasons and was pursued by him later, he probably thought that there was no more suitable marriage partner than Zhang Peimeng, so they got married together later.
But now we have also seen, Mo Han was domestic violence, Zhang Peimeng responded to deny...... At this point, I don't know how it will end.
However, I would like to ask a lot of girls who have great admiration for a certain profession to observe more about themselves when choosing their marriage objects.
After all, what you spend your life with is a person, not a profession, and personal character is good or bad, not much to do with the profession.
There is no conflict between a lover and an admirer of a particular profession, but the connection between the two influences one's judgment.
It would be irresponsible to ignore the judgment of personal character because of a favorable impression of a certain profession.
For example, it is said that Zhong Nanshan and his wife became attached to each other because of sports and admired each other.
However, his wife is still waiting for him, keeping watch over him and accompanying him. Zhong Nanshan also loves his wife as always.
I think, from them, should also be able to see more different things.
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Don't choose love into marriage because of worship
It has been previously reported that some accounts offer relationship courses for a long time, or even private lessons, specifically to teach men how to interact with women.
Later Revelations confirmed that there were indeed many women who were cheated.
These men, in fact, are setting up their own set of rules from the moment they touch you, gradually letting you fall into the trap they set for you.
Let you both have feelings for him, and he is willing to pay so much, to the end he chose to leave you, you realize that this is a fraud from beginning to end.
The weakness of human nature is the weakness of emotion in essence, once someone uses emotion to hurt others, the injured people have to heal their wounds, so there are so many people, dare not easily to accept love.
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Don't get married just because everyone else is
In fact, in today's society, especially with the development of the Internet, everyone is digging their own privacy and releasing it, or even snooping on others' privacy, hoping to get the illusion of relief from it.
In this illusion, although people seem to be becoming more and more borderless, they are actually getting bigger.
You know, there are some things, from the experience of others, is not to see their own.
Some people are watching the people around them are married, coupled with parents, relatives and neighbors continue to talk about, eventually confused to get married.
Once there are unacceptable things in the marriage, blame others, more blame yourself, had been too hasty.
But it was too late. As a wife and a mother, it takes courage to break free. It is not just to talk your way out of your current situation.
They all say it is for your own good, but being kind and doing things are actually two different things. If you can't tell them apart, others will be in trouble.
Persuade you to get married, with you into the marriage, of course, the gap is not just to say a few words of kung fu, not careful, will use a lifetime to redeem.
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Don't get into marriage with a rosy picture of love
From ancient times to the present, love is more pledges of eternal love, more is moving.
You say it's beautiful, but with it comes pain, and so many emotions and feelings waiting to be tasted.
Everyone before entering the marriage, must be careful, love is only a temporary, marriage is to be engraved on the brand of a lifetime.
At the beginning of a love relationship, no one gives you a stamp and stamp to send a certificate of love. At the end of a love relationship, no one gives you a certificate.
Marriage is not the same, the beginning of marriage to have a certificate, end to have a certificate, a lifetime you are carrying the record of marriage, carrying the traces of marriage, but love, the end can only be hidden in the heart, hidden in the time.
You say it's beautiful, and it seems so.
But beauty is not permanent, just like happiness is not permanent, only a lot of repetitive tedious is permanent.
I hope that with love you can freely choose how you want to go. When you make up your mind, just go ahead and do it.
Sometimes a choice is not inevitable. If you are willing to live a happy life, what does it matter? If you have love, it is also good to live a lifetime.
The important thing is that after more than half of your life, whether it's in love or in marriage, you can be happier and happier. One person, two people, a group of people is the end.