My research findings, inference, observation and conclusion:
After few years of marriage, it mostly happens that the couple tend to start resembling each other. I don't think I'm the only one who observes that. Whether the result is physical or psychological, that truth holds.
My Concern Now:
To the ladies, you are what you eat...
Every lady would always want to feel "under 18" even after marriage. I assure you, that cannot happen when you marry a grandpa that's way too far older than you. Maybe someone of your father's age... You know what I'm talking about.
Just give the marriage about 5 to 10 years, you'll begin to see yourself as a grandma.
The purpose of marriage was for two people to grow old together. So don't be surprise when you see your younger friend who married an old man becoming older than you. She's fulfilling the purpose of marriage.
Of course, if the man is older by default, he can't pause his ageing for the lady to slow down her ageing gradually to meet with his. No, he'll rather speed up the ageing process of the young lady because of what he's feeding her with(euphemism is used here).
Take for instance, visiting a mechanic to change your car's engine oil, how does the old oil look like compared to the new one that is to be replaced? Hope You all know the answer?
Why is it so? Because the oil is old in the engine, as such, it's dirty and any further usage will spoil the engine. That's the same thing that happens when an "old sperm" is given to a younger lady, it will automatically reconfigure the girl's system and it will make the girl look older than her age.
But check out two young couples...
They'll both remain younger for a long time and you can't tell when they will become old. That's the type of marriage that fulfills the purpose of growing old together.
Do you want to become older in no distant time? Marry an old man. Definitely, you both must grow old by force, not by age but by looks and appearance.
Do you want to be proud to show off your husband anywhere you go? Marry a young gentleman and watch out how fulfilled you'll be.
I'm talking about husband or wife of your youth...