Things are like that.
I want to go to Canada, and only one opposite sex friend would go there together with me, and we find another guy online who want to join us on the trip. We signed up for a tour group and pay the money (600 dollars deposit). Usually, four people will live in one room in the hotel to save money.
Before the trip began, the other guy who wants to join us quit because of his private problem.
Then I told my husband about it, he is quite angry and he told me that I cannot go even if three of us go together. My husband was in China at that time, he has to work in China and I am here in American to continue my study.
I said "what? I already pay 600 dollars, and how can you say something like that?"
After a long time negotiation, I quit, and I cannot go together with my friends and I cannot ask the money back from the travel group.
That is some award thing, I really want to know how would you treat about that thing, if you are at my position or you are at my husband position. I am really curious about how people from different part of the world would think about it.