KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

in marriage •  7 years ago 

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Hello friends @perkyyoung here, today I want us to share some thoughts about marriage,
Marriage is the process by which two people make their relationship
public, official, and permanent. It is the joining of two people in a
bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly
cut short by divorce. Over the course of a relationship that can last
as many as seven or eight decades, a lot happens. Personalities
change, bodies age, and romantic love waxes and wanes. And no
marriage is free of conflict, these are some characters that kills marriage.

. Laziness kills marriage

· Suspicion kills marriage

· Lack of trust kills marriage

· Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

· Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

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· Arguments kills marriage

· Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage

· Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

· Poor communication kills marriage

. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

· Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage

· Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage.

· Nagging kills marriage

· Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

· Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage

· Being too independent minded kills marriage

· Love for party, money and spending/partying kills marriage

· Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage

· Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life

· Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

· Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.

· FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

· Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage.

· Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

· Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

· When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

· Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.
. Please, share this to save a marriage today.

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upvoted from link zone :)

Wow, that is a long list! Some points I agree with, some not.

Yea, we all have our differences though.

Of course, it would be a boring world otherwise!

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Good to know, i think a marriage that has the knowledge of God will know hw to tackle any problem that arises in there marriage.

Hello @perky young. I'm @geekis, I blog about #marriageandrelationship. I like your post because it is my area of passion. One of the key reason for the many we are experiencing today is suspicion and should be consciously avoided. Let's be friends.

Thanks @geekis. ur actually correct suspicion is really bad in any marriage