If I were to fully acknowledge toxic masculinity as a thing, I would say that toxic masculinity is the veneer of strength. It's men who don't know how to be men pretending to be men.
Real masculinity is true strength. We've bled and fought to obtain.
Real masculinity is breaking a bone and not crying about it.
Real masculinity is chivalry.
Real masculinity is putting your life on the line for the women in your life when they're faced with the toxic men.