The people said, in the same river twice not enter. Although, for the life of all bathe and enter into the same river many times. If we consider a purely direct meaning of this expression. But what is meant in a figurative sense, what meaning is behind it, why it is customary to consider whether to enter into this same river for the second time.
Let's try to understand in this article. Where it all begins.
People meet, people fall in love, get married – the famous words of an old song. The history of relations are formed in different ways. Was happiness, was the meeting, affection and feelings, plans were made, dreams, hopes. Guessing desire, looking at the night sky for falling stars.
They were preparing for the wedding, it was assumed the joint purchase of housing, the expected birth of a child... and was a lot more good and sometimes not. But at one point everything is destroyed, not formed, and in the end the separation occurred. The reasons each has its own, quite different, however, as life situations.
Most people think that it is impossible to return to past relationships, it is impossible to resume and establish. Bitter resentment, disappointment heavy, the circumstances, the fear of another loss, and pain – all this allows to think so.
The past will not return. Yes, that's right, the past will forever remain in the past. Is it possible to forgive, is the ability of the individual. What to expect in the future and how life will go – no one knows. Is there a desire to start over – dependent on the feelings and wisdom of each individual.
It is important to understand that the river in question is life, it runs all the time, updates and changes. It exist joy and sorrow; happiness and sadness. People are also peculiar for life to change, to grow, to become wiser, to gain some experience.
To understand something and accept for yourself, and something to reject. And what the result is. Indeed, one cannot enter the same river twice enter in principle. Because it almost every minute a new. Same thing with people who are in it. They are also others every day. Other views life with a different attitude and reasoning.
But with regard to the relations called the past, there is always the opportunity to review them. To draw conclusions from the mistakes, to reassess values, to prioritize.
After the passage of time, many of the insults seem funny and absurd. And a lot of things – silly and not so scary as it seemed before. With the years, becoming wiser, will be able to look at many things from the outside and correctly analyze a situation.
When people have feelings that have stood the test of time; have the desire and the desire to be together, you can always start all over again. With new strength, knowledge, skilled approach to each other.
It is prohibited to go along on the river of life, updated and happy. No, of course you can, and even need to log in to the same river many times. In the river called Love!
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