A memoir
The Journey towards TrueLove is actually an odyssey towards an encounter with your true Self.
You are not just the person that you see during the day in the mirror and until you accept this fact you cannot proceed forward. You are much more than a body and physical material alone; much more than your thoughts or feelings. There is a psychic part, an energetic component that you have never met before since it has been dormant. This part sad been left aside eons ago and now it’s time to awaken it.
Credit: Carl Lavia and Lorna Le Bredonchel
You had to set for yourself a sign, a catalyst, that would remind you to begin pulling in that part. Therefore, you had decided that that sign would be your yearning to reunite with another human being to create with them a loving relationship. Such a relationship, thus, is a reflection of the reunion that you are destined to form with your mentioned grand Self.
Blaming partners for your unhappiness or for not fulfilling your desire to know yourself is therefore pointless. You are the one who must address yourselves to become whole again. You are the one who must summon the God that YOU are to come to reside within you. Then and only then you will automatically attract and manifest a loving physical relationship with a human spouse.
I have extensively elaborated on how to create that reunion.
- First, I said, you must exercise basic codes of manners that would govern your interactions with your fellow human beings. I had assumed that you, my readers, were already gifted with personal manners and so didn’t detail the requirements.
- The next important necessity was to choose TrueLove, your realization. It may sound surprising but not all the people who say they want a loving relationship really choose that.
- Shedding blockages was the following phase. You had to (and you still are) getting rid of inappropriate beliefs and old stances that you were indoctrinated by parents, teachers and the social surroundings. You were requested, and were given tools for that, to examine and transform any belief you were holding regarding the world of women and men; those which didn’t correlate with TrueLove had to be changed.
- Since much of the process is done behind the scenes and without the active participation of your awareness, you were and are requested to practice great patience and unquestionable determination. The time that you think you are wasting now will be given to you back seventh fold once you reunite with your TrueLove. Do not be surprised if your encounter with TrueLove will reveal to you the fountain of youth!
- With the choice and new beliefs, you kept ongoing. You adopted new lifestyles that released the tyranny of your ego and allowed your wiser part to take control.
You were guided from then on by four principles –
- The first was to live peacefully with everything in your life.
- The second was to celebrate any present moment that you dwell in without worrying about the past or the future.
- The third was to practice deep breath which is a simple yet profound gift that you had granted yourselves.
- Lastly, the fourth principle was the image you have about yourself.
How grand are you? The more you understand that YOU are that divine part that looks after you just as YOU look after it, the earlier the reunion with it would take place.
Humans face difficulties when they try to evaluate who they are. We generally have low self-esteem. Most often when we present confidence and power we are not genuine but ego-driven. Therefore, your biggest challenge might be to get over painful childhood memories, to ignore the way your society has treated you, to release your self-scolding and once and for all to acknowledge your grandness.
From here onward things will roll automatically. You will continue to live in your present moment and breathe until one day, or one night, someone whom you have never known before would touch you with its white wings. At that moment you will slightly shiver but would instantly know that this is what you have been waiting for since you were born.
Your TrueLove has arrived.
