Why Women ALWAYS COME BACK....AFTER You've MOVED ONsteemCreated with Sketch.

in men •  2 years ago 

Why women who rejected you? who dumped you? Who left you for dead? Always, always, always try to come back after. Okay, the key word here is after you've already moved on. Okay? Why did these women always try to come back after? You're already over them? Okay, after you want nothing else to do with them? Why didn't they come back when they still had a shot while you still wanted them? No, that's no fun. That's no challenge. They'd rather come back after you've already moved on. Right? So one thing you'll notice with women who have rejected you, women who have dumped you, women who have left you behind? coldly, right, just very cold heartedly. You'll notice that once you have moved on from these women mentally, right. There's this weird, like, universal transmission that happens like almost telepathically, they just feel or sense that hey, he's not coming around anymore. Hey, he's not liking my photos on social media anymore. Hey, he's not texting anymore. Hey, he's disappeared. Hey, who's this new girl on Instagram? All of a sudden? She tries to dig her clutches back into you, right? She tries to get your attention back. And really that's what she's wanting. She's wanting to get your attention back. Why? Because it validates her What am I taught you guys about validation? Okay, did old pickup artists trick we know, any pickup artists out there and intermediate pickup artists will tell you that women will chase the validation to know it through the end of time. They will chase validation until they get it and as long as you keep withholding it from him. Guess what? They'll keep chasing it right to little game of cat and mouse. So the problem with a lot of guys without this pickup training, dumbass is you never learn it dumb asses are like it's a scam. It's all a scam. When these guys get into these relationships with these chicks, or even just gaming them, right? And these chicks pull this shit on them. What do these guys do? They're like, Oh my god, she finally wants me to find I finally get to get her, you know, and then they run into her arms. And then she's like, Huh, what a chump. What a week as chump. I knew I could get him. Then next, you know, she starts ghosting him all over again. And he's right, right back to square one. Whereas what I teach my students is to pull back, okay? Use that validation as a carrot on a stick to make her chase it. Right, if you really want to make her chase it and really want to get her to start investing in you. So that you can actually get her or so that you can just torture her the way she tortured you. You can do that. Right? It's really entirely up to you. Personally, I just choose to move on. But a lot of these women who have rejected you in the past who've dumped you in the past who have left you for dead will often try to come back just to get that shot of validation from you knowing that she can have you that's really all it is. Fellas, that's really all she wants is knowing that she could have you that she's got you wrapped around her little finger. Right and the second you give that tour, you're out. Okay, you're out . But soon as you give her that validation guys, you're out of there, you've lost that girl's respect. You've lost yourself dignity. And any shot of actually getting that girl. This is why I tell you guys never never ever, ever, ever validate her. Okay, there's a way to do it. If you want to get the girl or even if you just want to get back with her. There's a way to do it. And like I said, you got to keep that validation on a stick like a carrot. make her chase it around the track a few times until she starts to realize like, Hey, I can't play with the sky. I can't toy him. I can't treat him like he's my little voodoo doll. Okay, instead, I got to start showing him some respect. I gotta step my game up. This is a high value guy. What was I thinking when I was treating him like some chump? He's a champ. How could I have not have seen this
and then something magical will happen. She will start to fall for you. And you'll start to have her wrapped around your little finger. And it will be you who is getting tired of her. It will be you who begins ghosting her. It will be you who stops her Responding to her Texas because you're bored of her. You don't feel like it. She's grossing you out. Right? You're done with her. It will be you who has that power. If you just apply what I told you, right, remember validation. At the end of the day, that's all that matters with the girls many times is validation. That's just something that they will chase forever and ever and ever.

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