As much as we blame the power possessors,there's a need to also allocate a portion of it to the many led ones who think being submissive implies being a doormat. Too many indiviaduals,for want of the crumbs that fall from these ones table,live basically as slaves of the power drunks. Sometimes,all that's needed is a bit of self-knowledge and esteem.
I couldn't agree less with you, you just hit the nail on the head.