Relationship ends, not because people had a falling out, but because they did not make up.

Usually people quarrel over nonsense, trivial matters that need not be paid attention to.

It is difficult to imagine a truly fundamental reason for the quarrel, which would be a weighty reason for parting. Usually there are very few such reasons; they can be counted on the fingers of one hand.

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Scandals are always very small, insignificant. Claims that are expressed to each other during scandals are also negligible on a global scale of these relations.
To say something serious is very difficult. At such moments, the right words have somehow not been invented yet.

What is important for real? This is your inner feeling. When your relationship is consistently beginning to be associated with a fetid swamp, then the next evening quarrel becomes not a problem, but a release and a way out of a difficult situation.

You are like a breath of fresh air. You do not want to go back.

No flaws, no conflicts, no tragedies can destroy relationships that are viable by themselves. The city can recover even after the worst earthquake or nuclear catastrophe. Of course, if this city has a reason to exist.