I know we hear that all the time: Just be yourself! But it's hard to really allow that because our whole childhood and also in adult life we were taught that we have to change. And unconsciously we still believe these voices.
Therefore I would like to encourage you to look at this from a different perspective: Do you have people in your life that you love FOR being different, FOR not fitting in and not meeting the expectations of others and society at large? Do you know people that you love for being very real and authentic?
And can you imagine what a relief it must be for these people to have someone in their life as well who is truly themselves? – This is why we can be ourselves and be loved for who we really are!
There will always be people who don't like what we do or represent - but those who really matter, our soul family, will always love us exactly the way we really are! And the more you embody your true self, the more you invite such people into your life!
Ich weiß, wir hören das ständig: Sei einfach du selbst! Aber es ist schwer, das wirklich zuzulassen, da uns unsere ganze Kindheit über und auch im Erwachsenenleben immer wieder beigebracht wurde, dass wir uns ändern müssten. Und unbewusst glauben wir diesen Stimmen immer noch.
Deshalb möchte ich dich ermutigen, dies aus einer anderen Perspektive zu betrachten: Hast du Menschen in deinem Leben, die du liebst, gerade WEIL sie anders sind, WEIL sie sich nicht anpassen und einfach nur die Erwartungen anderer und der Gesellschaft erfüllen? Kennst du Menschen, die du liebst, weil sie so echt und authentisch sind?
Und kannst du dir vorstellen, was für eine Erleichterung es für diese Menschen sein muss, auch jemanden in ihrem Leben zu haben, der wirklich er/sie selbst ist? – Genau deshalb können wir wir selbst sein und genau dafür geliebt werden, wer wir wirklich sind!
Es wird immer Menschen geben, die nicht mögen, was wir tun oder repräsentieren - aber diejenigen, die wirklich wichtig sind, unsere Seelenfamilie, werden uns immer genau so lieben, wie wir wirklich sind! Und je mehr du dein wahres Selbst verkörperst, desto mehr lädst du solche Menschen in dein Leben ein!
Such inspiring words. Thank you very much!
In my opinion to be who we are starts with self love and acception. In our world we learn exactly the other part. We are not good enough, we make this and that wrong and so on. Our subconsciousness stores these informations and it prevents us from self-realization.
To be real and authentic is what we are. Everyone is different to everyone other.
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Absolutely! Self-love is really the key! Thank you for your beautiful feedback!
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