It is a common mistake. We are judged, and we judge others through what happen, through actions, social status, etc. And Yes, what we do tells a lot about us.
But we are, YOU are far more than what you do.
As ancient classical texts are showing (Indian, chinese, even western) we are all more than our job, our steem account ( 😁 ) , etc.
So what are we? We are bodies, we are consciousness, we are a sum of atoms, we are Will. We are a result and a cause. We are part of something far bigger than we can understand.
This being said : Relax , breathe deeply, and stop always judging yourself. That doesn't mean you don't have to change. That means you can stop blame yourself and focus your energy on becoming a better person.
🌈🤙🙏!