In fact, very few people want you to be good.

As the saying goes, "The human heart is separated from the belly." Others are good and bad to you. It is not that they usually look very friendly, nor that he is very good, but feels by heart. Only the heart can feel the warmth, it is the person who is good to you.

I used to think that "the ear is virtual, the vision is true." Now I understand slowly that the sight is not necessarily true. The smile you see may be just a professional habit, or a means of making a living, not sincere, smiling. Behind it is the interest, the mutual benefit, and the "closeness" between people.

In fact, some people often say "I wish you happiness", but in his heart, I hate you "tooth itching." Sometimes, people's interactions will make you "suspicious of life." Especially in the following situations, people who have experienced have learned what is “cold and warm”.

1. In the circle of friends, there are many people who like you, and there are very few people who really care about you.

In the circle of friends, everyone is using it, but more and more people are setting up “visible in the last three days” or not at all. Maybe a lot of people are living in life, they are looking for a sense of existence, but such a sense of existence does not make sense. Everyone likes each other, a lot of comments, few people are willing to point out your shortcomings, even if you sent something, did not see clearly, just like it.

Sometimes, you send a sad message, for example, who is sick, but someone is praising, such a person, "like" is a habit, in addition, he does not care what you sent. At the same time, you will also find that when you ask someone, it is useless to send a circle of friends. Finally, there are those who have friendship in life, come see you, greet you, help you.

More of this is the case: people who chat online every day have nothing to say in their lives, and they feel alienated. Some people, just netizens, have nothing to do with life. "If you don't agree, you will blacken you."

In the circle of friends, there are not many people who really want you, if there are, in fact, they are friends in life, just use the circle of friends to pay attention to you and communicate with you more.

1. In life, there are many people who laugh at you, and few people who are willing to help you.

We can meet smiling faces on many occasions. For example, when you buy something, others smile at you and recognize your choice, but in his heart, I want to earn your money instead of caring about your life. At the station, a waiter smiles at you. It is a professional habit. He smiles at everyone and never has a "crying face". Such a stiff smile, really don't care too much.

Also at work, someone greets you, but that is a working relationship. When you step out of the unit, everyone can't talk about friendship. Even after a few years, the name has become strange. You don't believe that if you borrow money from a colleague, you know how hard it is to trust people.

There are also those who have been helped by you, and they will be moved to tears, but there are not many people who can really "drip the grace of the water, and report to the springs." It turns out that tears sometimes lie.

There is also a kind of "false concern." For example, if someone asks you about the past, you will choose those things that are unpleasant. It seems to be very enthusiastic. It is actually uncovering your scars and inquiring into your sad side. They just think of these as a topic after a meal and feel curious.

1. There are a few people who will accompany you for a ride, and there are very few people who will accompany you for the rest of your life.

Some people say that loving you is actually loving your money, loving your appearance, not loving your heart. When you are down, you may understand the true meaning of "trees falling apart."

On the road of life, a lot of fate is actually someone who comes along with you for a while, not someone who has been holding hands for the rest of your life. "When you meet, you are always caught off guard. If you leave, you are prepared." Those who say that this life has "no fate" have long wanted to leave you. Everything is an excuse.

As life approaches, the older you are, the fewer people there are. For example, parents will take a step first, brothers and sisters will each become a family, the relationship between them will be weaker; children will become a family, if there is a bad wife, it will basically be separated from the family relationship. When you are old, see who else is there? Maybe you find that loneliness is the last destination of life.

1. When you have money, you will be “very busy” and when you have no money, you will be “cold and clear”.

The society is very realistic, people are poor, family is weakened; friendship is gone; colleagues don’t mention it at all. If you say that you are borrowing money, maybe it is useless to make a phone call in the morning. The answer given by others is a rejection. For example, "I am also very nervous in the near future." "Oh, my lover is in charge, money is not mys." "I just invested in a project, I am a loaner." The most hateful Yes, some people have not answered the phone. Some people just answered the phone and become a "blacklist" after a while. Some people directly say "Is it wrong?"

Conversely, when you have money, others will approach you. There is a saying in the countryside, "Which side is big, which side depends on it?" If you have money, you can rely on others. Even if you rarely help others, there are always people who are hypocritical to you, and really let you not know how to avoid them. But in order to live, you have to deal with it, you can't just offend people casually.

In this life, people who truly love you unselfishly are parents, confidants, and lover. In addition, there are also a few friends who care about you.

People who really want you are really few. If you encounter them, please cherish them and reward them with double "good".

When people reach a certain age, they learn to look at life and know how to look at other people's hearts. When one person after another is locked out of the "heart", the rest must be true to you, he really wants you to Good, please don't refuse, know how to be grateful.

Author: Yan Ju.

Keep my words in my mind and walk into your heart.

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