If there is a black spot on a piece of white paper, we will focus on that black spot and ignore the other parts.
In life, I often remind myself: "Don't forget all the good things about the other party just because of a mistake."
This is true for relatives, friends and colleagues.
Because I clearly realize that no one's contribution is for no reason.
People who insist on making soup for you every day must be because they care about your body. If one day, the taste of the soup is very salty, you can say, can the soup be lighter tomorrow? It shouldn't be said, why can't you even make soup?
Colleagues who drop you off to and from get off work every day must be because he treats you as a friend, not just because they drop by. If one day he can't send you off, you can consider other methods instead of accusing him of not sending you off.
The goodness of others is like candy to you, which may disappear after eating, but you should remember the sweetness in your mouth at that moment. If one day he makes a mistake, the smell may disappear, but it should not stay in your body like a scar.
In this world, nothing is right. Everyone's sincerity and help come from a strong kindness or love.
In this world, apart from our biological parents, no one can tolerate us unconditionally, and no one can always treat us well.
Similarly, if we encounter this kind of person who can't see your good, but just pursues your mistakes, then all we can do is stay away.
Whether it is lovers, friends or family members, learning to be considerate to each other is more important than blame, and this is also one of the compulsory courses in life.
Don't forget what others have good because they do something wrong.
Don't do things that make you feel particularly regretful when you lose him in the future.
Think more about the warmth and love that the other party brings. There are always more glorious days than darkness.
If someone can forgive you for all other bad things because of your goodness, then you must cherish it. There is no other reason, just because he loves you too much.
Conversely, we should treat him in this way, and mutual tolerance is the most valuable.