Money does not change people it unmasks them

Paano mo nga ba makikilala ang isang tao? Sapat na ba na nakasama mo na sya ng matagal ? Kaibigan mo na sya ng matagal ? Meron akong nabasa na isang post kung gusto mo raw makilala talaga ang pagkatao ng isang kakilala mo simple lang pautangin mo.! :)

In english

How would you really know a person? Is it enough that you're with him for a long period of time? That you were friends for a long time? I have read an article telling that if you wanted to really know a person wait till a money involves.

Kalokohan ba to? Walang basehan? Pero para sa akin may punto ang sinabi ng writer na makikilala mo ang isang tao pag pinahiram mo sya or pinautang mo ng pera. Pera ! Oo diyan mo masusukat kung ano ang isang tao dahil sa pera lumalabas ang tunay na kulay ng tao mapa kapatid mo man pinsan o isang matalik na kaibigan. Sabi nga nila pera ang ugat ng kasamaan sa mundo.

In english

Is it really true? Or its just a joke? Well for me the writer of the article i read was telling the truth money can really unmasks people. Money yes money! They say that money is the reason of all the evil deeds here on earth.

Balik tayo sa pagpapautang sa personal kong karanasan may mga tao na ako na kakilala na nagpakilala dahil sa utang. Ang ayos ng nakipag usap samin nangako pinahiram nagka amnesia! Nagkaroon yung pinahiram namin ng selective amnesia kakilala pa naman nya kami kaso yun utang hindi na nya naaalala. Nakakainis kasi hindi naman pinupulot ang pera pinaghihirapan yun pinagpapaguran. Kung minsan pa kung sino ang nagpautang sya pa ang nahihiya maningil tapos yun umutang walang kusa para kalang hangin na dadaan daanan.

In english

Lets go back to the issue of lending or allowing someone to borrow you a money. In my own personal experience there was this person we know who ask us if we can lend him a money. He sincerely talk to us and promised that he will return it immidiately and after we lend him the money he got sick a sickness called selective amnesia. Selective because he still talk to us and greet us but he totally forgot the money that he borrowed from us. He was not mentioning it. It was so annoying because the money that we lend to him comes from our hardworks and he totally forgot about the money he borrowed from us or i must say that he dont want to pay it anymore.

Baka naman walang wala talaga kaya hindi makabayad? Oo kung ganon ang sitwasyon mauunawaan mo basta makipag usap at ipaliwanag ang side nya. Tapos pag nakaluwag sana naman magbayad. Kaso madalas hindi naman ganun may pambayad nakakapag post nga na #feelingblessed sabay post ng binili or kaya naman celebrate ng birthday ng anak bongga yun utang isang taon narin ipagcelebrate mo narin yun utang mo bes tapos with matching cake para lalo kang mukang sosyal #gigilmocaqouh.

In english

Perphaps they cant really pay you because they really have nothing. In that case they could talk to you about their situation and will promised that they were going to pay you when their situation changed. Maybe you could understand if thats what they do. But sometimes the situation is not like that you would see them posting or bragging about their childs elegant birthday party but they didn't pay their debts you would just say really? What if you also celebrate your debt anniversary with cake also?

Tapos meron pang sila na umutang pag siningil mo sila pa galit na kesyo pinepressure mo raw sya, bes yung utang mo kasi last last last last last year pa tapos pinepressure kapa sa lagay na yun? #hiyanghiyanamanakosayo.

In english

And there is also this kind of people who barrowed you money but when you ask them to pay you they got really mad. and would say that you were pressuring them to pay but the money they barrowed to you was three years ago :)

Meron din naman na panay pangako na hindi naman natutupad, Meron din tataguan ka ang masama pa kakalimutan ang pagiging magkaibigan nyo ng sampung taon dahil sa utang. Sayang diba? Yung pera? Oo syempre sinungaling ako pag sinabi ko na hindi pero mas sayang yung pagkakaibigan na nasira dahil sa pera!

In english

There is also someone that would just promise and will not be fulfilled, and also someone that would always hide. But the most bad thing is about your friendship for ten years that because of debt would be destroyed. What would you most regret of? The money? Yes, of course, I'm a liar when I say that it is not, but that friendship being broken because of money!

May mga ganito na talaga na tao at hindi natin sila mababago ang payo ko lang wag maging biktima. Pag nag chat at nangamusta kabahan kana kasi kasunod nun minsan ay kung may pera kaba? If duda ka sa tao at may record na hindi nagbabayad seen mode lang muna bes. Ang sama ko ba? Hindi naman siguro depende naman sa sitwasyon at sa tao lalo na sa status ng bulsa mo. If nangangailangan talaga wag maging madamot. Kung sobra sobra ka naman okey lang na magpahiram ng bukal sa puso at huwag ng umasa na may kapalit. Kung marunong magbayad ayos lang din na magpahiram atleast napaluwagan mo yung tao. Pero kung mangungutang tapos isusugal lang at ilalaan sa bisyo nako matuto kang humindi. Meron kasi akong kapitbahay na ganyan magsusugal tapos pag talo na hihiram sayo kasi wala raw pambili ng pagkain. Isinugal ang pera tapos hihiram sayo? Wow magic hahahaha.

In english

There’s always a kind of people like this and they will never change. My only advice is don’t be a victim if they send you message thru chat and asking about your situation, in which you might feel surprise and nervous. Because the next thing they might to ask is to lend them money, so if you feel doubt and you knew that they are a kind of people who don’t pay and irresponsible just ignore it. Am I too bad? I wish im not, because it will be depend in the situation, people or the status of your pocket. If it’s necessary or emergency don’t be so selfish instead be generous and understanding type of person to help someone. And its reasonable to help someone who really in need, but if the person is about to lend you for gambling or intend to use it for bad habit purpose, learn to say no. Because I experience that one of my neighbor who are addicted in gambling and when they lose they will try to borrow money in you because they don’t have foods. They probably use their money in gambling then soon they will try to lend you some money in which its quite disappointing.

Maging masinop tayo sa pera na pinagpapaguran natin hindi masamang humindi lalo na at pakiramdam mo naaabuso kana.

In english

Lets take good care of the money that we earn from our hardworks. And also we must learn how to say no if we feel that we are being abused.

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