I do not know exactly what moms felt to their children as I have no baby yet. But most moms say that the happiest moment in their lives was probably when their kids are born. I am not a mama's girl nor papa's girl. I am close to them both, how about you?
Do you always consider the feelings of your mother? They say moms know's best but there is also few mother out there who push their children in the wrong path and I encounter that person and she is the mom of my friend and I don't want to mention because for sure you don't know it either.
My mother is sometimes clingy since I am the only daughter of the family, I felt she's too jealous especially if I have no time for her when I go home. I and My family are too far to each other as they are now in Mindanao, Last year I was in Dubai for more than 2 yrs as I am working there. So the time we spent together is priceless and I can see the smile in my mother's eyes, I know she's very happy even if she's not showing it to me. In entire of my life, I always consider the feelings of my mother as she is the most important person in my whole life.
Every time I started asking their permission about going back to my work, I feel the loneliness of my mother and she can't even speak to me. I also trying hard to be strong not to cry but deep inside I cried a lot until I ride in the bus and I keep wiping the tears in my eyes because I can't leave without her but I need too as I don't want to depend on them. They already did there part so I need to work and its part of our lives.
Every time I called my mom I never forget saying I love you's and we both exchanging those sweet words. I Missed my mother so much. This is a quick reminder to all people out there.Please do not ignore your mother's feeling, Love them as you love yourself because it is a Gift given by God to Us.
Agreed Love them as you love yourself because it is a Gift given by God to Us. best advice ever !! May God bless you ..
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Whilst it is true that a mother plays an important role while their children are young, they have to let their child go at some point and realise their child is their own person, for good or bad. Guidance is good, control is evil, and I see too many mothers trying to control their adult children through manipulative behaviour. Fathers also, but not to the same degree.
When you have kids, remember they are their own individual, unique person. Do not treat them all as if they are the same and do not treat them as if they belong to you. Guide them to be the best people they can be, morally, ethically and spiritually, and things will work out. Do not force them in directions you want them to go, instead gently guide, and accept if they take another course. If you have done your job right, their decisions should be good ones, if their decisions are not, you have not failed to teach, they have failed to learn. Unless of course, the lessons you taught are bad. Lead by example, be a good role model and remember this post you made when it is time for you to let your child/ren be independent.
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Mothers knows best as they say. Thanks for sharing.
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God bless you and your family. It’s nice to read posts like this. It’s honouring.
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