I get married early, the child is now five years old, is his own big, ready to come out next year to find a job. Why do I take my own children? Because the mother-in-law has a retirement salary, very lazy, very strong personality, once said to me, will not give me children, nor let me provide for the elderly. Working all his life, retiring to want freedom, want to go out to play, can not help look after the grandson, let me take, in the future do not need me to provide for the elderly. I can understand that after all, there is no law, and grandparents have to look after grandchildren.
I am studying accounting, graduated from a famous university, into the community was more than 1 years, is the accumulation of experience, because his mother had heart disease, not with children, resigned on maternity leave after, with children at home, I was an only daughter, mother is a business unit my father retired, is to do the project, have some money. I bought the whole house before marriage, and rent it out. The value is about one million, the rent is downstairs, and the rent is more than 2000 per month. After I quit the job, the parents rent the house rent for me, and they get 2000 from the retirement wage every month for me. My husband's salary is very low, the house is a loan, the first payment of this house is half of my grandmother and I, the decoration is my parents' money. Children will take care of her mother-in-law said a few days, will pay please Yuesao, mother-in-law has only 500, then for a few days, that my mother take care of me, just go home to take care of the flowers. Because the husband is a caesarean section, a week to accompany maternity leave after work, mother distressed me, then please take care of their own money to serve my Yuesao, more than a month.
My husband's money loans, auto loans, only a little money, the cost of living and the child in the home of the milk is my husband, look at the economic tensions, and went out to run by his family, anyway, life was quite tight. I do not let him go out tired, the husband said: you are rich or not I have money, I have to work hard.
Last year, the father-in-law uremia, to change the kidneys, to do surgery, to spend about 300000, the mother-in-law cried, told me that before traveling, spent a little money, and now there are only tens of thousands of homes, no money, I hope I can pay. She knows her son has no money. I said you are not saying that I don't need my old age to look for your son. The husband has no money. It's very difficult. I said, the father-in-law mother-in-law the house sold, the house is worth about more than 60 W to heal father-in-law recuperate enough, after living to our home. Who knows that the mother-in-law does not agree with the death, says it does not want to live with us later, does not want to look at my face, must have my own house. Then to relatives crying, filial son, daughter-in-law does not take money to his father to see a doctor. The husband really doesn't have any money. See husband in bed and toss about, sleep at night, my husband and I want to discuss my parents sold the house, but my parents don't agree, that the house is my last retreat, property right is the parents, I have no way. Finally, the mother borrowed 300 thousand to her, let her mother-in-law gave me a promissory note, she was playing IOU pull a long face. My parents said, the house is not later for us, this is a son, one family is what I owe you, ha ha.
When the grandfather was released from the hospital, he brought his parents back for his convenience. Now I took care of the children and took care of a family's dinner. My mother in law didn't help me. She said she was old and had pain in her body, and had lumbar disc herniation. I'm going crazy now. I can't stand it. I'll convince my husband to have a nanny. All the expenses are out of me.
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