THE WAY WE SEE THE PROBLEM IS THE PROBLEM

People are intrigued when they see good things happening in the lives of individuals, families and organizations that are based on solid principles. They admire such personal strength and maturity, such family unity and teamwork, such adaptive synergistic organizational skills and abilities.

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And their immediate request is very revealing of their basic value.
They will give you questions to solve without knowing how long you've gone to make it.

• " How do you do it? Teach me the techniques."

What they are really saying is that ,

• "Give me some quick fix advice or solution that will relieve the pain in my own situation."

They will find people who will meet their want and teach these things; and for a short time, skills and techniques may appear to work. They may eliminate some of the cosmetic or acute problems through social first aids treatment.
But the underlying chronic condition remains the same and eventually new acute symptoms will appear. The more people are into quick fix and focus on the acute problems and pain, the more that very approach contributes to the underlying chronic condition.

The way we see the problem is the problem.

There's so much to do. And there's never enough time. I feel pressured and hassled all day, everyday, seven days a week. I've tried half dozen different planning systems. They've helped some, but i still don't feel I'm living the happy productive, peaceful life I want to live.
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The moral-principles tells me there must be something out there, some new planner that will help me handle all these pressures in a more efficient way.
But is there a chance that efficiency is not the answer? Is getting more things done in less time going to make a difference or will it just increase the pace at which i react to the people and circumstances that seem to control my life?
Could there be something i need to see in a deeper, more fundamental way, some paradigm within myself that affects the way i see my time, my life and my own nature?

My relationship has gone flat. We don't fight or anything; we just don't love each other anymore. We've tried a number of things , but we just can't seem to rekindle the feelings we used to have.
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The moral-principles tells me there must be some new books or some seminar where people get all their feelings out that would help my fiancee understand me better. Or maybe that it's useless, and only a new relationship will provide the love I need.
But is it possible that my spouse isn't the real problem!? Could I be empowering my spouse's weaknesses and make in my life a function of the way I'm treated?
Do i have someone basic paradigm about my spouse, about relationship, about what love really is, that is feeding the problem?

Can you see how fundamentally the prejudice of the moral principles affect the very way we see our problems as well as the way we attempt to solve them?
Whenever people see it or not, many are becoming disillusioned with the empty promises of the their moral principles . As i have studied some organizations, i find that long-term thinking executives are simply turned off by psych up psychology and "motivational" speakers who have nothing more to share than entertaining stories mingled with platitudes.
They want substance ; they want process. They want more than first aids treatment. They want to solve the chronic underlying problem and focus on the principles that bring long-term results.

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In sum, this is the very best way you can solve yours, you need the paradigm that's more than first aids treatment, let's solve the chronic underlying problem and focus on the principles that bring long-term results into our organization and way of life.

I'm your boy Williams
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