Looking into the mirror who do you see? Are you satisfied with the you that you see? If the answer is no, it's never too late to become that you that you would love to see. First,you have discover yourself. To discover yourself is to learn about yourself, to know who you are, your weaknesses and your strengths.
The following are important steps you can take to become you.
SOLITUDE
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Take out some time to think of your life. You need to get away from distractions. When all around is quite, ask yourself some questions like; who am I? What have I achieved so far in life? Where am I heading? What do I do with my time? These questions will definitely help you reflect on your past and present. Solitude will also help you organize your world.
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SINCERITY
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After asking yourself the above questions, you need to gone sincere answers to them. The worst form of deceit is self deceit, so you need to tell yourself the truth. He who never made a mistake, never made a discovery. Recognize your mistakes and learn from them. Accept your past and get ready to face the future.
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FIND YOUR DREAM
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Everyone has a dream. You know what you want from life. Although life may not make your dream come on a platter of gold, one has to strive.
A wise man once said, "There is no dream too big and no dreamer too small". So dream big or die small. If you want something tomorrow, you must plan must plan something today.
Pessimism would do you no good. Optimistic people do not only grab opportunities that come their way, they create them.
Dreamers are optimistic people, they always expect something. If you are not a dreamer, you expect nothing and that's what you'll get. Nothing.
DISCIPLINE
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We all have excuses for not achieving the things we ought to achieve, so you need to make a conscious effort to put things right. Disciple is doing the right whether you feel like it or not.
Procrastination is a very dangerous habit as one can miss wonderful opportunities as a result of it. Nothing great was ever achieved enthusiasm. So, never leave till tomorrow what you can do today.
CREATE A LIFETIMELINE
Write down what you want to achieve within a particular time frame. This will help you manage your time we'll. At the beginning of a new session, you need to ask yourself "what have I set to achieve this season?"how do I go about it? " Make sure you put your thoughts into writing, this makes it realistic. Time is most valuable possession in life. Make sure you keep timeline real and simple as possible.
FINALLY, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
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Thanks for posting this. You have opened a wide theme.
Every few years I go deeply into a process of re-aranging my life. Sometimes more succesfully, sometimes less. By now I could say I did fairly well.
Two month ago I was again at the begining of this stage to re-evalue and re-arange it once more.
The process of inner growth and moving towards our dream life should be known to us. I am not sure it is. Generation after generation is becoming more and more distant from our basic Being.
I found few very good books and audio recordings with explanation and tips to understand the process of changing ourselves and then really doing it. Lots of helpfull advice comes from Napoleon Hill, Alan Watts, Bob Proctor and as you listen them on Youtube, new suggestions will appear by the side. More or less they all have a base in researches from 20s.
They all talk about a way, how to build your life as you have always dreamed about it. They talk a lot about repetition. It might seem to plain and unusefull at first. But its so important, really. Important, because through the process of change you can come efectively only if you change your paradigm. It is not easy when you don't know how. But when you do... :) Then it's so easy to truly understand all the points above, you talk about.
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Wow.. Hope the steps you took is turning out good for ya?
It's good you did something about it.
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Well if you do all above and most of all you stay active and you follow your plan it works. This time I am a bit older or shoud I say mature and I took it very seriously. The system itself. I am really following the rules and building step by step. Most interesting thing is - when you overcome your fears (with a determine decision to do something about it) and you make plans and you become active and you don't stop - now I am way more relaxed and I have way more fun doing my work and consequently more sucess, for example. I even have time to spend on Steemit :) If you change focusing on problems to focusing on solutions, you are already half way there. Optimism makes miracles.
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this post says it all. life will not just throw you what you desire most times.you have to be intentional about what you want from it.the above steps certainly work.i have applied some of them and i can boldly say they worked.thanks for the post.resteemed
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Am glad you applied them..
Thanks so much for resteeming.
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Great inspirational and motivational writings!
It's a good thing to be sincere & disciplined with oneself as these are very essential to making success in individual's definition of success.
Well thought out piece Daniel!
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Yeah..
Thanks man..
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