I don't want folks who just notice the bad and spread negativity.
I want people that want to live, jump, laugh, are passionate about life, teach me new things every day, know how to enjoy, and pass on their zeal for living.
I appreciate bright, enthusiastic, fearless people who have learnt that changes are opportunities.
I adore individuals that bring me joy, hug and kiss with honesty, say what they think with respect and frankness, teach me what love is, and support me when I need it.
To identify poisonous people
At work, with friends, and with family, we encounter negative people who taint the mood and make us feel lousy.
Studying their behaviour will help you detect them quickly:
They think everyone hates them.
Toxic people are insecure and think everything and everyone is against them.
They show people their low self-esteem, demonstrating their insecurity and discomfort.
People who don't love themselves can't love others or recognise the good in them.
They reject guidance.
Toxic people don't take advice and assume they know everything. Telling them what you think makes them upset or rejects you.
Change the subject and leave as soon as possible—don't debate with these folks.
They believe there is no answer.
Toxic people only perceive issues without answers and create them if they don't. She intentionally victimises herself and plays the victim to get attention.
She doesn't perceive change as an opportunity, problems as learning opportunities, or solutions. She gripes.
They hide behind franchise
Toxic people express what they think without filter, gumption, or empathy.
Though they appear honest, they are cruel and won't listen to your opinions because they feel threatened.
They use frankness to speak what they want without considering the implications. Even helpful criticism is rejected.
What life-lovers do
I desire positive people who love life, are always learning, and do many activities to enjoy life and not stagnate.
Be accountable
People who love life believe they make decisions, are responsible for their actions, and can change and learn.
Life-lovers know they can handle situations.
Not comparing themselves to others
Positive people don't compare themselves to others since they realise their flaws and strengths and learn from their mistakes.
A self-loving individual will love others, prove his love, and make them adore him.
People don't dwell on mistakes forever.
Learning to love oneself means accepting risks and their consequences. He/she knows you can win or lose but always learn.
Because we are humans, this person learns that mistakes happen. However, she uses her emotions well.