The Best Motivator Is Yourself

in motivation •  7 years ago 

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Motivation is an encouragement or change of energy in a person characterized by the emergence of feelings and reactions to achieve goals. That is, in this life we ​​will always need the motivation to do various things in achieving our goals.

Motivation is divided into various forms, there are people who are enthusiastic and motivated because of money, there is also because of praise, there are also who want to share the benefits and goodness. Can also motivated people to want to follow the steps of achieving someone he likes for example like like Mark Zuckerberg.

Usually, people who are always motivated will continue to try to walk even run to pursue his ideals. Unfortunately, motivation is sometimes not present in us. Finally comes negative things in everyday life, such as feeling lazy, sad, afraid, feel not able and other negative things. So we need Motivator in our life.

During this time we are familiar with various motivators that can generate motivation spirit within with various semiar and training. The question is how long will motivation arise in us? Is it forever? Just a moment is not it. Well, then who is the best motivator who will always be able to motivate us all the time?

If you're upset, for example because of love, usually what is done? Without conscious, usually we will seek motivation from various motivators around us. There are vent with friends and hope to get a solution, there is also a confide on twitter by hoping there is a paying attention. When we meet with our friend, then vent tell our moody and distressed feelings to him. Then our friend will usually suddenly wise and say, "Never mind, I'm sure lo pantes dapetin better". Then suddenly arise motivation and passion to move on.

When finished vent, there is usually a feeling of relief. But of course, our friend can not always be present beside us. When he comes home or part with us. Is the motivation alive? Apparently began to fade and disappear, finally upset again. Wanting to get a sense of relief again, usually vent continued on the phone. After the call, feel relieved. One minute two minutes, ten minutes, a sense of confusion re-emerged. Finally, the various ways we do to get motivated from our friends and still do not make our hearts really calm. It even makes us addicted to continue vent widen everywhere, but not really provide a solution.

So, if we only rely on motivation from the outside, while ourselves are still upset it will only be able to motivate us for a few moments. But if the motivation is really we emerge from within ourselves. So whenever we are sad, upset, upset, we can motivate ourselves whenever we want. Because the Best Motivator is Our Own Self.

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