Golden Rules for Raising Strong Children

What does a strong child mean? Is your child's success or happiness and resilience more important? Strong child indicates a child who can express himself in any situation, demand his rights, and communicate his wishes. He can adjust to any scenario and survive.

What builds self-confidence? The child's worldview is that everyone should keep them secure and happy. At ages 2-6, the goal is independence. I know and do everything. From infancy, parents should meet the infant's requirements, make the newborn feel significant, and feel love and tranquilly when held; it's vital for building confidence.

Because they perceive the world through our eyes, parents shouldn't be anxious. If we worry, they worry. If the mother has hormone issues, get help.

As he grows, around age 2, he is able to break away from his parents in a healthy way and let him do everything he can, but set limits to the child, whether he gets everything he wants, and gaining basic habits (such as sleeping, eating); it helps them feel safe, try, and develop a positive self-perception, that is, self-confidence.

It's crucial to give the child flexibility, disturb his routine, and assist him adjust to new events and places. It's necessary to make him sleep by reading a book, not to interrupt his diet, and to avoid junk food. Not overnight. Small adjustments are possible.

Parents' failure to help the child; He should not offer solutions or suggestions. When a child is upset, respond "I understand" and "What are you going to do?" "I'm not you." He gains independence and self-confidence from the message. Say, "Let's think together." Share your experiences. Role-playing can provide new insights and answers.

Our kids aren't us. They weren't created to fulfil our dreams. There for themselves. What we need to do is get to know our children as they are, accept them as they are, provide opportunities for them to develop, help them choose a hobby (one they will do regularly and for a long time based on their interests and abilities), give them responsibility, give them the right to decide and make choices, and trust them. Make him feel, encourage him to try again when he feels he can't, and show him our failures.

Your life isn't black and white; we must show him he's grey. People are neutral. We're all nice and bad. Personality and conduct are different. "I don't like this behaviour" is equivalent to "I don't love you." "You upset me" can replace "I'm annoyed about this" Teach them that we can be upset with family.

A strong child can handle life's unpredictability and obstacles. We must grow kids strong because we can't always be there. Self-confident children are successful.

It's vital to make children feel protected and let them know we're available if they need us. It's not what you do, but how you do it and how you feel. Insecure children don't try and don't know their limits.

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