"And so what"

...AND SO WHAT...?

You failed the exams......and so what?
You couldn't get the job,.......and so what?
You couldn't get the admission.....and so what?
You couldn't get that girl or boy to accept your love proposal.....and so what?
You couldn't buy the car...... And so what..?
You couldn't build the house.....and so what...?
Your landlord keep worrying you to pay your rent..... and so what?
You don't have money to spend.....and so what?

Just ask yourself: ..."and so what"?
I believe we have all in one way or the other faced these questions before...... Such is life, it's in stages. You can't escape the problems of life. They must come but not to kill us but to make us responsible people in society.

Hear me, life is not about having everything everyone else has. You have something that someone else doesn't have likewise someone has something you don't also have. The absence of that in your life therefore doesn't mean you are a failure.
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Sometimes in life you just have to stop the unnecessary comparisons with people and be yourself. You are very unique and your own way. Your problem is that you haven't identified your true worth and value .

Stop looking down upon yourself. Stop pitting yourself and understand that you are born and created special to your generation, until you focus on your uniqueness you will never cease to worry about comparing yourself with others._

Don't kill yourself because you are not yet the owner of that company or the owner of those houses and cars. Don't be worried because everyone seem to be doing well and more than you.

Hear me precious one, you are also doing very well...... Where you are right now is someone's prayer point everyday.
Your current address is someone's wish. You have something that someone is seeking every single minute. You have greatness in you. Your problem is that you haven't sat down to discover and be all that God wants you to be.

From today, choose happiness over worrying...... Choose success over failure..... Choose the top rather than being at the bottom. You are marked to the top. Your story will be unfolded soon. Your destiny is special and can't be compared to someone's. It's just in a matter of time. You will shine.

The next time you feel empty and down just take a deep breathe and shout........ AND SO WHAT?????

I believe in you so much. You have greatness in you. You will explode very soon and the world will hear your story. Don't give up. Always remember it may be hard but hard doesn't mean impossible.