The fun summit is to sit with someone who hates you so much, yet it shows you the opposite. This tells you that your presence has a prestige that can transform it from hypocritical to cowardly. In this article I will tell you the right way to deal with those who hate me
First is ignoring, ignoring here is not as weak as it is not to give them the opportunity to provoke or engage with them. Sometimes I find some people acting strangely with me, or carrying feelings of hatred and hatred towards me for no reason. I do not exhaust myself much by looking for the reason. You ask them why this hatred is for you, but I prefer to ignore those who hate me completely. Ignoring them will make them feel the extent of their stupidity.
As I told you in the previous point do not exhaust yourself in the search for the reason, it is very likely that you have nothing to do with it completely, perhaps the reason for this hatred was spoken of you by others, they chose to believe them without verifying what was said, and may be hatred because of jealousy or hatred , It is important to realize that guilt is not always your sin, there are people who are created so, do not know love a way, hate all around them, but hate themselves do not exhaust yourself with them.
If you feel that it is simple and that a step from you will solve the problem, it is OK to take this step and get closer to them. Maybe if they know you more, realize how wrong they were, but do not get close to them with fear or compromise. Be strong and confident of yourself, Make them close to them as a way to change the image in their minds about you, but without weakness or humiliation or anxiety of their reactions, even without expecting something good.
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Concentrating with yourself is the best reaction. In this case, you do not have to waste time and get into a closed circle of thinking about those who hate you, or thinking about why you hate them, focus with yourself and live your life as you should and do not care, do not waste your time thinking about others and wondering Why are they acting with me this way? Why are they treating me like this? All these questions are unnecessary, because whether you know her answer or not, it is assumed that this will not change anything in your life, because you should not be affected by the actions of others and their behavior to this degree, as long as you treat them with creativity and respect do not care much about what they do, Trust that you have not really wronged them.
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Live your life as you used to, do not make the actions of those who hate you and their feelings control the course of your life, continue your activities and your actions and do not make these things affect you, persist more insistently on success and excellence than at any other time, because if you put all your focus with those who hate you, believe me You take one step forward, but you will go back dozens of steps, because your focus is not in your life and your future, but with others.
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