How do you become open to change? Change is the only constant, it's a necessary part of life. When I talk about change, I'm talking about changing yourself and the world around you, and I'm speaking from experience, it's my life story, a bit of a journey of discovery.
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I was raised in a family that always had problems. I remember going to bed after church on Sunday nights, because my dad would not stop complaining about something. It was always something. I would go home that night and tell my mom what he did, and she would make me take her car to church or I would get ready for church, and the same thing happened.
In the beginning, it was enough to get my dad to go to church, but over time I started to have my own thoughts and concerns. Sometimes I'd listen to him complain about the things going on, but if I were able to see it for myself, I would be able to respond by changing my beliefs. I would start to see it as my responsibility to change things.
So when I was told to be open to change, I had an opportunity to step outside of my comfort zone. I would be able to ask for help from friends and family, even if it meant stepping away from them. I would ask them to try to offer advice or solutions to what I was having trouble with. I would even ask them to give me an opinion on things, such as how I should make money. I found a way to get out of the house and start doing things that I couldn't do at home.
At first, my friends and family didn't even really understand what I was getting myself into, but I began to draw a new and very unique perspective on things. One of them was my mother. She would start to tell me stories about her own childhood. She was a very open person who could really help me think about the situations that I was having difficulty dealing with, and that helped me in ways that I hadn't thought of before.
The more I talked about my problem, the more I began to realize that I wasn't alone, there were many other people just like me. that needed someone to listen. They needed someone who could help them understand what it was that was going on in their lives. I also wanted them to know that I was not a bad person. that they could trust me and trust God to help them.
So one day, I told everyone that I was open to change, and they all asked me where I was going to begin. I told them to talk to God, because He is the one that knows the answer to everything. and He will help them figure it out. He's there, He knows my heart, and He can make the things that He wants.
He can make them bigger and better than ever. You too can be open to change, and reach your dreams and goals. So let Him guide you.
The great thing about being open to change is that it isn't always a choice. Sometimes, we have to learn something new. You may have to give up a little bit of what you want to have. In the end though, it's all worth it because you're changing.
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Open to change does mean that you have to make mistakes. But it doesn't have to be at the beginning. If you can see what needs to be done and change your life the way it is, you'll be able to grow and improve yourself.
Open to change means that you have to put in the effort. It may take some time, but once you find the way that works, you'll be able to live the life you've been wanting.